I need some advice on dealing with a kid who's going through a rough patch. This is her first full year of competitive after 2 years of developmental, and she is a 10-year-old level 3. It's been a rough year for her, with multiple injuries (broken finger, Severs), and even prior to that she is at best a middle of the pack gymnast, which bothers her. She no longer wants to go to gym - sometimes she says she feels sick (mysteriously starts right before gym and gets better after it's late enough that there's no possible way she could go) and sometimes she says she's too tired. I've tried talking to her about it and I can't get much from her - she says she still likes gymnastics but it's really hard, and that's about all she will tell me. We are not allowed to stay and watch but from the little bit I see she seems reasonably happy while she's there - it might just be putting on a good face or because of being with friends, though.
So I'm torn... it's still the middle of competition season, and her coaches have the (not unreasonable) expectation that she will be at practice and working hard, and I definitely believe that it's important to push through the hard times. On the other hand, maybe she just needs a break from the pressure and to find out if she really loves the sport enough to continue? I just have no idea how to handle this...
So I'm torn... it's still the middle of competition season, and her coaches have the (not unreasonable) expectation that she will be at practice and working hard, and I definitely believe that it's important to push through the hard times. On the other hand, maybe she just needs a break from the pressure and to find out if she really loves the sport enough to continue? I just have no idea how to handle this...