Well, look at it this way - if she had been at this gym she’s at now the first year of 4, she probably would have been a 3 instead because of their higher standards. So really, this is only a second year of 4.
My opinion is that’s crazy, but we are a low hours gym that competes well. Our philosophy is that boys peak at a later age than girls, and there is no rush to get through the levels; it’s a marathon, not a sprint. I would definitely worry about burnout with that kind of pace. They are...
Same answer: this is not safe. I would not try to convince them; just move gyms. If their judgement is off on this it will probably be lacking somewhere else too.
I would look very hard at moving gyms, because this is not a healthy way to deal with fears/blocks at all. And FWIW I would say the same thing for a neurotypical kid. That has nothing to do with it. Pressuring a kid with a block is huge red flag.
TOPS style means lots and lots of conditioning. There’s a fine line between creating really strong gymnasts and boredom/burnout, and you’ll need to figure out where that line is for your child.
It’s definitely possible she likes doing gymnastics but just doesn’t like working hard. In this case I would just let natural consequences catch up with her. Ideally that will internally motivate her to work harder in the future. She’s only 9, so she might just be testing what level of effort...
Interesting. I was the other way around as a gymnast. I could hold a long time, but never managed to get more than 2-4 steps forward in all my years of practice. I never could do that hand balancing walk to stay up in one place, either. I wonder what never clicked for me.
The dramatic falls - I remember more than one where a gymnast falls off the beam and gets hurt. (Usually the ankle??). The fall is shown from at least 3 camera angles all stitched together. The gymnast usually ends up landing in a ball, no matter what skill they fell on. Straight jump? Down...
Do you think that the girls are happy? They may be winning, but if they have parents at home telling them that winning is everything, they probably feel a lot of pressure to not disappoint.