profmom
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- Nov 18, 2011
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DD got serious about moving forward the first year she competed after a year on pre-team. This was around age 8. She did a lot of open gyms to work on specific skills.
Gym got hard and frustrating for her at around age 11. She had vestibular issues that prevented progress on beam. She did a second year at L7 as a result. When she finally moved to L8, she almost immediately started going through a string of frustrating injuries that limited her ability to train and compete. During her third year of L8 (defined loosely, as she barely competed), I was thinking it was only a matter of time. She never balked at going to practice, but she was obviously unhappy.
Then the third thing happened, the thing you don't mention.
She switched to XCel and stopped fighting with her body and trying to make it do the things it couldn't do. She found the places where she could progress. She made peace with herself and her trajectory in the sport. She refound the fun in gymnastics, and she re-entered competition with a completely transformed attitude. And now she is concretely planning how she will continue in college at the club level so that she can continue to enjoy the fun and camaraderie.
Gym got hard and frustrating for her at around age 11. She had vestibular issues that prevented progress on beam. She did a second year at L7 as a result. When she finally moved to L8, she almost immediately started going through a string of frustrating injuries that limited her ability to train and compete. During her third year of L8 (defined loosely, as she barely competed), I was thinking it was only a matter of time. She never balked at going to practice, but she was obviously unhappy.
Then the third thing happened, the thing you don't mention.
She switched to XCel and stopped fighting with her body and trying to make it do the things it couldn't do. She found the places where she could progress. She made peace with herself and her trajectory in the sport. She refound the fun in gymnastics, and she re-entered competition with a completely transformed attitude. And now she is concretely planning how she will continue in college at the club level so that she can continue to enjoy the fun and camaraderie.