Bri, you really did a fantastic job of putting all of that into words. I am amazed! Your info will be a great resource to all of the gymnasts, parents, and coaches reading this thread. Nicely done!
I think one of the best things a parent can do for their gymnast who hopes to compete in college is to educate themselves on the topic as much as possible and also make sure their child's coach is knowledgeable on the whole college process. As a gymnast I wanted nothing more than to compete in college. I would have been thrilled to be a member of the lowest ranked D3 team and never compete at a single meet, I just wanted to be a part of a team and give it my best shot. Unfortunately for me, my coaches were only familiar with the D1 recruiting process and really did not even acknowledge that there might be opportunities out there for me. There is a good chance that even with their support I would have never made it as I had a lot working against me, but I really wish they had known more about programs available other than D1. It seems like most of the parents/gymnasts here with college aspirations are aiming (and on track) for D1 programs, but it's so important to remember that there are other options.
But, it should also be made clear that the scholarship opportunities at D2/3 schools are not as nice. My brother swam for a D2 swim program and was given a partial scholarship for tuition and some preference in housing assignments as well as academic support programs, but had to pay for his own books, pay his own way to some required training camps, those kinds of things. It wasn't the all expenses paid deal it is in D1. But it's still a great opportunity for girls who love gymnastics and want to keep going, and there are some D2/3 schools with exceptional academic programs. So while not as appealing, I think it is a great idea to keep an open mind about these programs.