I just bought a new video camera, I love it and guess what it is idiot proof.
It is the JVC Everio GZ-MG330ru, the ru bit stands for red, because it is awfully pretty too. It also comes in blue,silver and shiny black. Of course that had no impact on the decision.
http://www.letsgodigital.org/en/17759/jvc-gz-mg330/ a review of it.
I have had video camera with tapes before, but it was always such a pain to upload them. This is a hard drive camera, you plug in the USB and drag and drop the vids to your folder. You can also puch one button, if your computer has a DVD burner, and burn a DVD just like that.
It has a 35x optical zoom which is amazing for a video camera and I have to say it works great. It is very small, light and has a nice big screen.
I did do a lot of research as I love gadgets and I am very happy with consumer ratings of this camera.
I have seen it online for about $450 us, I bought mine in Canada.
Happy camera hunting, I video all my DD's meets do Dad can see them and the Grandparents who live 3000 miles away. It is worth every penny.