B.Gold
Proud Parent
- Dec 21, 2014
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My DD (11 yrs old) has been struggling with her beam connection for several months. There was a point where she was on the cusp of getting it consistently, then lost it over the summer during recovery from a minor injury. Then, some fears have crept in with the advent of puberty. I've tried to be relaxed about it because I know this is a pretty typical skill for a gymnast to struggle with and she will eventually get it.
Her gym event-coaches. My DD has worked primarily with the same beam coach for several years; I like and trust this very experienced, successful coach. But.... ya' know how sometimes another coach can come in, see something different, and have greater success with a kid who has stalled out?
Over the holidays, with coaches taking time with their families, she has had a couple coaching substitutes on events. The substitute beam coach, who the girls rarely see, really resonated with my DD. My DD has progressed more in the last week, on her beam connection, with the sub than she has in months with her regular coach.
I have observed the primary difference between the two coaches is, her regular beam coach counts on the girls to completely self-motivate, while the sub actually pushes my DD along through her fear on high beam. Apparently, my DD responds better to being pushed along a bit. And I've learned, through discussions with my DD, my DD wants to be pushed.
My question is this. Her full time coach will return sometime next week. What can I do from the sidelines to keep the forward momentum going on her connection? I've thought about scheduling some privates with the sub, but I can't bear to insult her regular coach in this way and I won't do it. But I'm certain my DD will lose all this forward progress once the coach returns. Any other thoughts on specific things I can do to help her?
Her gym event-coaches. My DD has worked primarily with the same beam coach for several years; I like and trust this very experienced, successful coach. But.... ya' know how sometimes another coach can come in, see something different, and have greater success with a kid who has stalled out?
Over the holidays, with coaches taking time with their families, she has had a couple coaching substitutes on events. The substitute beam coach, who the girls rarely see, really resonated with my DD. My DD has progressed more in the last week, on her beam connection, with the sub than she has in months with her regular coach.
I have observed the primary difference between the two coaches is, her regular beam coach counts on the girls to completely self-motivate, while the sub actually pushes my DD along through her fear on high beam. Apparently, my DD responds better to being pushed along a bit. And I've learned, through discussions with my DD, my DD wants to be pushed.
My question is this. Her full time coach will return sometime next week. What can I do from the sidelines to keep the forward momentum going on her connection? I've thought about scheduling some privates with the sub, but I can't bear to insult her regular coach in this way and I won't do it. But I'm certain my DD will lose all this forward progress once the coach returns. Any other thoughts on specific things I can do to help her?