munchkin3
Proud Parent
So lately I have been in a real tussle with myself. I know it is best for me not to be watching my daughter in gym. When she developed some fears, I made it a point to stay far away in order for the coach to deal with it appropriately.
The issue is, I like arriving the last hour in order to chat with my friends! We have coffee, we talk about other things, we laugh. We are gym moms planning travel meets, and talking about ribbon flip flops......These are times I rarely get because I'm either at work, or driving, or cooking, or cleaning......I really enjoy my time BSing!!!! We are at a large gym, with a spacious waiting area. There are some tables which are out of sight which is where I try to sit. (Try, depending on availability)
But I feel like I should NOT be doing this. Like it somehow is a detriment to my DD. I have asked her if my presence bothers her and she though it was a crazy question.....like 'what???'. My DD loves when I drop her off, and she likes me to come with food towards the end......its a 4+ hour workout.....
I don't think there is anything wrong with me being there, but laying low for an hour or so.....do I glance at what she is doing occasionally? Yes....there is a fine line.....am I crossing it?
The issue is, I like arriving the last hour in order to chat with my friends! We have coffee, we talk about other things, we laugh. We are gym moms planning travel meets, and talking about ribbon flip flops......These are times I rarely get because I'm either at work, or driving, or cooking, or cleaning......I really enjoy my time BSing!!!! We are at a large gym, with a spacious waiting area. There are some tables which are out of sight which is where I try to sit. (Try, depending on availability)
But I feel like I should NOT be doing this. Like it somehow is a detriment to my DD. I have asked her if my presence bothers her and she though it was a crazy question.....like 'what???'. My DD loves when I drop her off, and she likes me to come with food towards the end......its a 4+ hour workout.....
I don't think there is anything wrong with me being there, but laying low for an hour or so.....do I glance at what she is doing occasionally? Yes....there is a fine line.....am I crossing it?