gwenmom
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- Jan 24, 2013
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Hi Everyone,
My almost 8 year old DD is competing L3 this year. Last night she came to me in tears over her stride/mill circle (stupid stride/mill circle). She is very frustrated with herself that she hasn't gotten it and is crying that she will never get to be like Gabby Douglas and Jordyn Wieber. Sigh.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to help her emotionally through this? I told her that she is working hard and it will come, and that is she is frustrated she can always talk to me but she should tell her coaches how she is feeling so they can help her out on the floor work through it. She is extremely competitive, not so much with her teammates, but with herself. I also suggested that maybe we sit down with the HC and she can talk to him about her frustrations with herself. I'm not sure if this is the right thing, but it did seem to calm her down (finally).
I asked her if she still wanted to do gymnastics and that was a resounding yes and if she still was having fun and she said yes except she is getting bored doing the same routines. We then talked about her improving each time she did them so the next skills she learned would be easy to pick up.
I really came out of it feeling like I didn't have the right answer for her. Her dream is the Olympics, but I know that is a LONG shot, but I would never tell her that.
If you've made it this far, thanks for reading.
My almost 8 year old DD is competing L3 this year. Last night she came to me in tears over her stride/mill circle (stupid stride/mill circle). She is very frustrated with herself that she hasn't gotten it and is crying that she will never get to be like Gabby Douglas and Jordyn Wieber. Sigh.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to help her emotionally through this? I told her that she is working hard and it will come, and that is she is frustrated she can always talk to me but she should tell her coaches how she is feeling so they can help her out on the floor work through it. She is extremely competitive, not so much with her teammates, but with herself. I also suggested that maybe we sit down with the HC and she can talk to him about her frustrations with herself. I'm not sure if this is the right thing, but it did seem to calm her down (finally).
I asked her if she still wanted to do gymnastics and that was a resounding yes and if she still was having fun and she said yes except she is getting bored doing the same routines. We then talked about her improving each time she did them so the next skills she learned would be easy to pick up.
I really came out of it feeling like I didn't have the right answer for her. Her dream is the Olympics, but I know that is a LONG shot, but I would never tell her that.
If you've made it this far, thanks for reading.