As a parent does it ever concern you how many injuries kids get in this sport. Do you ever feel like maybe should just pull your kids out of this sport.
Well sure. I wouldn't consider myself a parent if I didn't have concerns about my DD's health and saftey. That's just natural.
But on the other hand, i do understand that as a parent, I must ALLOW my kids to push their own limits - even in the face of injury (physical or emotional). That's how some of us learn.
If your DD got a poor grade in math, would you pull her out of math class? Or get her the help she needs to succeed? Would you not allow a child to ride a bike without training wheels? Of course not. Skinned knees are part of the process / experience, and "protecting" her against that injury robs her of the opportunities of riding a bike, learning balance and coordiation, as well as the glory when she eventually 'get's it'. Some call it tough love. I call it common sense.
Think about it. Tell a child "don't touch the stove, or you will get burned." What eventually happens? They touch the stove, get burned, and result is they learn for themselves NOT to touch the stove. Sometimes those hard lessons are painful. But they are lessons that need to be learned dispite all our efforts to teach.
I recall telling my DD "No BHS at home...save that for gym". You know what I'm going to say next, so jumping to the conclusion -- she learned for herself why I said No. Will the lesson stick? It's doubtful. For Nastia, it requires mutiple learning experiences.
Knowing this, my rule for the house now is: "Don't get blood on my nice carpet!". It sounds pretty cruel, but in all honesty, she's the type that will learn more from her mistakes.. despite all mom & dad warnings and reminders.
And that's OK with me - because I was EXACTLY the same at her age. Heck, if the ER in my hometown had a "membership club", i'd be on the board of directors at the age of 12.
Now, as far as pulling her out of gym because of the level of injuries that occur? No, it's never crossed our minds.
Why? Kid's are resilient. Recovering from a physical injury is the easy part. Recovering from the mental injury (i.e. fear) takes more time, and coaching. If the child can recover from that, then they become stronger mentally in more ways then just gym. Just like falling off the bike. Hopefully - they learn from the experience. EVEN if that lesson is just sh*t happens...deal with it.
So now that the welfare of the child is out of the picture, The only reason left to pull her from the program is that the
parent doesn't want to deal the anxiety of having a child in an activity in which they "may" get injured.
When you think about it, that's an awful selfish reason (excuse) to pull her out of something she loves. Don't ya think?
Anyway, you asked for honest opinions, so that's mine. HIH
I say, If we as parents really want to help her our are kids, we should make sure they eat enough of the right foods, and encourge them to condition and stretch more (even at home), and get plenty of rest. As parents of an athlete, these are the best ways in which we can forestall, and/or minimize injury. Leaving all the pain and the glory to them.