N
NGL780309
I'm bothered from time to time when I hear people say things like if my DD continues in gymnastics she'll never have a normal childhood. I have a sister and brother-n-law who are big on saying this. Meanwhile their 2 kids do nothing. My nephew plays on the computer all afternoon, my neice does take dance, but other than that they do nothing. Everytime I go over there the kids are watching TV and the parents are doing their own thing. I don't see what they get to do that my DD doesn't. My normal childhood was pretty darn boring. I was a shy kid (as is my gymnast DD) and I didn't have a lot of friends in my neighborhood. I didn't really feel like I found a place to belong and some joy in my hard work until I was older and was heavily involved in a school activity. To me, there is no greater joy than working really hard at something.
I feel like my DD is getting something so beyond what a "normal" childhood offers. She has more friends and closer friends at 6 years old than I ever had. She has really come out of her shell with her shyness. She has learned the value of hard work. She's physically fit and she's never bored. I also think gymnastics gives her wonderful confidence. It's very time consuming and demanding, that is true. On her days off though she is bored. So what's so great about this "normal" childhood that people speak of? I don't recall having such a thrilling childhood. I'd trade the one I had in a heartbeat for the one my DD has had the opportunity to be a part of.
What do you guys think?
I feel like my DD is getting something so beyond what a "normal" childhood offers. She has more friends and closer friends at 6 years old than I ever had. She has really come out of her shell with her shyness. She has learned the value of hard work. She's physically fit and she's never bored. I also think gymnastics gives her wonderful confidence. It's very time consuming and demanding, that is true. On her days off though she is bored. So what's so great about this "normal" childhood that people speak of? I don't recall having such a thrilling childhood. I'd trade the one I had in a heartbeat for the one my DD has had the opportunity to be a part of.
What do you guys think?