gymgal
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- Aug 22, 2008
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Maybe I'm wrong but ask around and see how many 6 year olds have stated goals. They have dreams like movie star, olympian, president, fireman, doctor.... but not score goals, placings etc. and she's learning this from someone.
There is a huge chance that the "goals" will kill the fun, as others have stated.
Girls who steer toward competitive gymnastics tend to be very goal oriented by nature. It's in their personality. Not all are like that but a larger percent than non-gymnasts. My dd has always been goal oriented - even before gym started. Yes, little ones have dreams too but there are a lot of 5 and 6 yr old gymnasts who know exactly what they want and can provide details very clearly.
To OP: it sounds like she has the potential to win Vt at states but be careful comparing her scores to girls in other meets to see where she stands. This is a subjective sport. Especially Vt. You will see gold medal scores all over the map. Dd's gym went to 2 meets in Jan. The average Vt score from the 1st to the 2nd meet went down .5. No reason for it on the girls' part. Just different judging.
If she won't budge on her goals, at least down play them and tell her that it is just as important to win/lose graciously. I have seen girls ignore their own teammates b/c the mate was higher on the podium. this particularly happens in the younger ages and it is horrible to watch.
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