Clover
Proud Parent
- Jul 28, 2011
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Recently, our Level 4 girls found out who was moving up to L5 and who was repeating L4. My 7yo DD will be moving to L5 this Summer, but unfortunately her 8yo BFF will be repeating L4.
At first everything seemed fine between the two of them, but now my DD says that the BFF is being "mean" to her, and she doesn't know why. I didn't really put much stock in it, but I did pay attention when I dropped her off at practice. I saw the BFF whispering in another girl's ear and pointing at my DD. When my DD asked what they were talking about the BFF said "none of your business" and walked off. My DD was sad. Usually, the two of them are inseparable.
This other little girl is really a sweet and nice girl. I think that she may just be upset and perhaps a little bit jealous that DD is moving up and she is not. Since she is 8yo, she doesn't know how to deal with her feelings.
Has anyone been in this situation before? Did it just get better on its own? When move ups start this summer they won't be practicing together any more, but they do see eachother at school, and we live on the same street. I would really like to see them work through this.
Any thoughts on what I should tell DD?
Thanks in advance for your help.
At first everything seemed fine between the two of them, but now my DD says that the BFF is being "mean" to her, and she doesn't know why. I didn't really put much stock in it, but I did pay attention when I dropped her off at practice. I saw the BFF whispering in another girl's ear and pointing at my DD. When my DD asked what they were talking about the BFF said "none of your business" and walked off. My DD was sad. Usually, the two of them are inseparable.
This other little girl is really a sweet and nice girl. I think that she may just be upset and perhaps a little bit jealous that DD is moving up and she is not. Since she is 8yo, she doesn't know how to deal with her feelings.
Has anyone been in this situation before? Did it just get better on its own? When move ups start this summer they won't be practicing together any more, but they do see eachother at school, and we live on the same street. I would really like to see them work through this.
Any thoughts on what I should tell DD?
Thanks in advance for your help.