In all honesty, I can get where you both are coming from.
I'll be brutally honest, and hopefully this will help you:
In my opinion, from the way you describe it, your coach is not creating a good environment for you. It could be that they don't realise how their comments come across, it could be that the way you're describing it is different from what they meant, it could be that they're just not great at communicating or just not a good coach for you. All athletes should get feedback on their routines, when an a gymnast is upset over falling or a stressful training you don't say "not that big of a deal", and you never say a gymnast is just being dramatic when they try to discuss how they feel about something.
That being said, I've mentioned before that I don't know your age. Based on your writing, I assume 8-14 years old, probably 13 because I think that's the minimum chalkbucket age. The point being, you seem to have some trouble communicating in writing and do kind of come across immature (sorry). And we don't know if this is also how you communicate in the gym. Some tips:
- When people ask multiple questions, it helps if you reply to all questions.
- If you want to come across mature and reasonable, use full sentences with punctuation and no caps lock.
I think we can't see how things exactly go down. It makes a difference wether you yell at the coach "You're a bad coach you're always talking to X" or wether you say "I feel like I'm never giving feedback, could you maybe try to give more time for this". However, either way you're clearly not happy with how things are and something needs to happen. I agree with nutterbutter partly because of how you come across, but the things as you describe them are also not okay.
Solution: If you can, talk to your parents about this. They can help communicate your issues to your coach. Maybe sit down and think for a while, what are your issues in the gym with things going on, how do they make you feel? If you express things as "I feel ...." that can help a lot. If you try this and you still feel not well treated, you may want to look at if this is the place for you to be. In the end if doesn't matter whose fault it is, you need to feel respected, and if you don't, something needs to change.
Also, before anything, as nutterbutter said: give it a day to calm down and see how you feel about everything. If you're still seeing things the same, please talk to somebody because you come across as feeling very unsupported.
PS. If you have trouble talking because you're upset or it's scary, you can also show your parents these posts if you prefer. I