So DD had a meet this weekend, and something happened that made me want to talk to the coach. I try my best to not get involved with this sort of thing, and I am very big on letting the coach do what he needs to .......(even though my DD is the most precious child in the world)
DD fell on an event. It happened to be HC event, and he had been drilling this stuff all week. During the competition, As she kept falling during the warm up, coach began really criticizing my DD and basically told her she was screwing it all up......no surprise, my DD saluted, began, then fell......she later said with tears, it wasn't that she fell, it was 'what' he said.............
Meet season is rough work for these girls, they bust their butts and the coaches can get pretty demanding and sometimes downright mean.....I don't get worked up about this part and DD really has been handling the pressure very well..........what does upset me is that DURING a meet I feel the coach should be encouraging and should try and believe in his girls.......not take the wind from her sail DURING the meet, and notify her how much she is sucking and that she is in the process of messing it all up.......
Should I mention this? Again, I don't want to commit gymnastics-parent suicide, but I feel my 11 year old deserves a bit more respect.
DD fell on an event. It happened to be HC event, and he had been drilling this stuff all week. During the competition, As she kept falling during the warm up, coach began really criticizing my DD and basically told her she was screwing it all up......no surprise, my DD saluted, began, then fell......she later said with tears, it wasn't that she fell, it was 'what' he said.............
Meet season is rough work for these girls, they bust their butts and the coaches can get pretty demanding and sometimes downright mean.....I don't get worked up about this part and DD really has been handling the pressure very well..........what does upset me is that DURING a meet I feel the coach should be encouraging and should try and believe in his girls.......not take the wind from her sail DURING the meet, and notify her how much she is sucking and that she is in the process of messing it all up.......
Should I mention this? Again, I don't want to commit gymnastics-parent suicide, but I feel my 11 year old deserves a bit more respect.