- Mar 5, 2008
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I know pressure is hard on little ones. However, this year has been hard on my DD. The fact that she is young was why we took her out of the more competitive gym, she loved it but we were not sure. Bad move on our part. She has been miserable. Kids are no where near her age on her team at new gym so she isn't taking seriously by her team mates. This upsets her a great deal. Also, the lack of discipline at new gym means my dd gets to hear all about things pre teens talk about and that isn't good either. She also is now coached by lovely people who don't seem to know how to motivate, develope, encourage lill ones. Further more she has now really adapted to the environment around her. She sees sloppy, unmotivated, distracted gymnasts day in and day out so she now looks the same. She loved the stricter gymnastics. We just thought we knew better. So I understand your dilemma. Every child is different. We are moving dd too but not until after the season. She has begged all year to go back. What some view as too harsh, others love and thrive in. Its great there is a place for all types of gymnasts. She does up train a little. She is like your dd, skills are great but routines not clean.
You made some very important points here littlegirlsdream. Like you said, some gyms are just better fits for certain gymnasts and it may take a few years to find that fit. I do know what you mean about the kids getting "sucked into" the pre-teen drama. It seems like once one or two gymnasts start goofing off or chatting at the chalk bucket, it doesn't take long for more kids to follow suit. And it's not because the kids are lazy or unmotivated, it's just that age of them being 10-12 years old where the chattiness and socialization comes into play at a peak. My dd's coach deals with this quite often since the whole team is ages 10-12. You can imagine how 13 girls all that age who are very close-knit can sometimes be hard to stay focused LOL.