- Aug 19, 2019
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Hello - I am in need of some advice or perspective maybe from all of you more experienced gym parents. I am having doubts about whether or not my daughter is at the right gym for her. I worry that it is a little too laid back and that they don’t have enough coaching experience right now. The coaches are all relatively younger and I don’t believe they have much or any experience coaching girls at higher levels. They do a lot of conditioning, which I know is important, and really emphasize that their focus is the girls’ safety.
So my daughter is 8, very tiny if that matters, and is competing Xcel Bronze (they start everyone on Xcel track, but will switch to JO if they are ready and want to) this year after a year on the developmental/pre-team. She’s doing fairly well, but I’m not sure if she is progressing as much as she could be. I do understand that each gymnast progresses at their own rate, but I feel like she should be learning at least a little more than she is. I can’t stay to watch an entire practice session, but I try to arrive about 20-30 minutes early for pick up to see a little of what is going on. To me, it looks like they don’t have enough coaching staff to really spend enough time with each gymnast. I watch her going about going through some skills and not getting any feedback on any of it. They look at a paper to see what they need to do and then do it. She looks like she is racing through them, not really practicing them, and it looks like she is not really being watched. I know they are paying attention to them in general and keeping them safe, but I don’t see anyone telling her about what she is doing right or wrong. She tells me “mom, I’m so close to” this skill or “I did this.” Then I ask if the coaches told her that and she says no they didn’t see it, so I don’t know if she just thinks she is close or doing some things.
She is getting stronger and the few basic skills she does show some improvement, but beyond that, she is not much further along than she was last year at this time. I just wonder if we need to switch to a gym with a slightly different philosophy maybe? One that will push her just a bit more? I don’t even know how to approach this at her current gym or if looking at a new one. I don’t think we can really change mid season, although a few girls did just leave for a new gym this week.
There are other gyms around us, but they are all pretty small and we are, unfortunately, not in an area with a lot of serious, big name gyms. The next closest option is about 15 minutes from us. After that it’s either 45 min or almost 1 ½ hours away. DD, of course, has Olympic dreams, but we are a bit more realistic than that. I just want her to be able to reach her potential, whatever that may be, and to be able to go as far as she can and as far as she wants to with the sport. I’m just at a loss about what steps I should take or what I should look for. Thanks in advance to anyone who reads and for any advice you can offer.
So my daughter is 8, very tiny if that matters, and is competing Xcel Bronze (they start everyone on Xcel track, but will switch to JO if they are ready and want to) this year after a year on the developmental/pre-team. She’s doing fairly well, but I’m not sure if she is progressing as much as she could be. I do understand that each gymnast progresses at their own rate, but I feel like she should be learning at least a little more than she is. I can’t stay to watch an entire practice session, but I try to arrive about 20-30 minutes early for pick up to see a little of what is going on. To me, it looks like they don’t have enough coaching staff to really spend enough time with each gymnast. I watch her going about going through some skills and not getting any feedback on any of it. They look at a paper to see what they need to do and then do it. She looks like she is racing through them, not really practicing them, and it looks like she is not really being watched. I know they are paying attention to them in general and keeping them safe, but I don’t see anyone telling her about what she is doing right or wrong. She tells me “mom, I’m so close to” this skill or “I did this.” Then I ask if the coaches told her that and she says no they didn’t see it, so I don’t know if she just thinks she is close or doing some things.
She is getting stronger and the few basic skills she does show some improvement, but beyond that, she is not much further along than she was last year at this time. I just wonder if we need to switch to a gym with a slightly different philosophy maybe? One that will push her just a bit more? I don’t even know how to approach this at her current gym or if looking at a new one. I don’t think we can really change mid season, although a few girls did just leave for a new gym this week.
There are other gyms around us, but they are all pretty small and we are, unfortunately, not in an area with a lot of serious, big name gyms. The next closest option is about 15 minutes from us. After that it’s either 45 min or almost 1 ½ hours away. DD, of course, has Olympic dreams, but we are a bit more realistic than that. I just want her to be able to reach her potential, whatever that may be, and to be able to go as far as she can and as far as she wants to with the sport. I’m just at a loss about what steps I should take or what I should look for. Thanks in advance to anyone who reads and for any advice you can offer.