I feet like in JO there is a lot of competitiveness about getting to a certain level by a certain age, and the attitude of parents and coaches and gymnasts is that it's good to move up quickly and get to a high level at a young age. But that's not always true. If your goal is NCAA then you want to fit into the timeline for recruitment. If your goal is elite you might be trying to fit into the timeline for HOPES or trying to test elite by a certain age. But for 90+% of gymnasts it doesn't really matter, and there's no point in comparing one gymnast's timeline with another.
I didn't realize how fully the younger=better thing had gotten into my mind until I started competing NAIGC. Some people there had been doing gymnastics for 10 years, some for less than 1 - it suddenly occurred to me that it was pointless to compare myself with 5 years of experience to either group of people, even though we were mostly around the same age. Even with kids who have all been doing J.O. forever - if you win first place at states, you win first place at states regardless of what level or age you are, and it's an accomplishment. And there are different big accomplishments for different kids - e.g., making it to level 5, learning a certain skill, getting stronger. I know it's a competitive sport, but we don't have to be competitive about things like a gymnast's overall career, and nobody should feel like they're "old" or "too old".
I didn't realize how fully the younger=better thing had gotten into my mind until I started competing NAIGC. Some people there had been doing gymnastics for 10 years, some for less than 1 - it suddenly occurred to me that it was pointless to compare myself with 5 years of experience to either group of people, even though we were mostly around the same age. Even with kids who have all been doing J.O. forever - if you win first place at states, you win first place at states regardless of what level or age you are, and it's an accomplishment. And there are different big accomplishments for different kids - e.g., making it to level 5, learning a certain skill, getting stronger. I know it's a competitive sport, but we don't have to be competitive about things like a gymnast's overall career, and nobody should feel like they're "old" or "too old".