So I had a post about Sunshines lack of confidence on ROBHS and her frustration wiht not placing. I finally put it all togethor tonight at practice. She is acting out in class to get attention and when I set her down to get to the bottom, she says her coach yells at her all the time. I have heard/seen this and discussed it with the coach even HC and was informed to support the coach and tell Sunshine to listen and not argue. When I asked coach about it tonight she informed me that she no longer has the time to obligate to Sunshine because she is not trying.
My response was that we would not be back. This is very hard for us, we have been here for almost 4 years. I just cannot support a coach(both my girls have the same coach) that does not believe in positive coaching for a 6 yo.
On the way home we discussed what was going on in her mind and Sunshine said that she was so mad at her coach she wanted to hit something. This is my totally non-violent sweetheart. How did it come to this?
I really am so sad and frustrated.
My response was that we would not be back. This is very hard for us, we have been here for almost 4 years. I just cannot support a coach(both my girls have the same coach) that does not believe in positive coaching for a 6 yo.
On the way home we discussed what was going on in her mind and Sunshine said that she was so mad at her coach she wanted to hit something. This is my totally non-violent sweetheart. How did it come to this?
I really am so sad and frustrated.