First off, I would encourage her to stop teaching herself new skills at home and focus on conditioning and basics. The "self taught" or playground gymnasts end up with really bad habits that are super hard to break and end up holding them back in the long run. Our guideline when I was a gymnast...
Yes and amen! I don't think there's a coach out there who wants kids swinging bars at home. As an athlete, our suggested boundary from our coach with home practice in general was to keep it to skills we could do on balance beam. Obviously doesn't directly apply to bars, but it's a good principle.
I coached Xcel silver 5 hours a week, 2x2.5 hours. We did a half hour of bars each night and 15 minutes of bar conditioning each night. If you count bar conditioning, that makes 1.5 hours of bars per week.
It's been a long time coming. I understand innocent until proven guilty as a concept, but I think there should be a certain tier of allegation that suspends you pending investigation, and then accelerate that part of the investigation.
I honestly think any time minors appear to be at imminent...
I love how much research and thought you've already put into this!
I truly find privates unnecessary on a regular basis at these low levels. Yes, it can be fun, but I don't really find them beneficial. As a coach, I typically use them for something very specific when an athlete is trying as...
Make it as personal as possible! I remember very few gifts but some of the cards were incredibly touching. Or one of my kids remembered my exact drink I always had so she gave me a gift card with a note to get my iced green tea with sugar free raspberry syrup.
You're really the only one who can answer this, unless your parents have a preference for logistical reasons. If you don't feel like you can choose, flip a coin. If you find yourself disappointed with the outcome, you have your answer.
Bars is really what's going to hold you back here. Without a strong kip, you really can't even do level 4. To be in optionals you really need that strong straight arm -kip cast above horizontal and a clear hip or giants.