There's no true right answer here. I know what *I* would choose if I were in that scenario, but nobody can make that choice for you. Talk to your parents, because as it's been stated above, it's likely their money paying for all of this. See how they feel. There's probably someone in show choir...
AFAIK in XS a spot is technically allowed and there's no deduction (for the spot specifically) unless the coach actually touches the gymnast. I could absolutely be wrong on it, but we definitely had coaches spotting girls on a BHS or ROBHS when I competed silver 5 years ago, and their scores...
Swimming, diving, figure skating, and circus arts are all great for gymnasts. I also really enjoyed weightlifting after I quit gymnastics. I would imagine a gymnast would be pretty great at wrestling too. Rock climbing is fun, and uses a lot of the grip strength and flexibility from gymnastics...
I once knew a gymnast who made it through level 8 without needing grips. It was when she got to level 9 and needed releases and transitions that were more dangerous that she finally decided to get grips. So, it is definitely possible to not necessarily need to use grips until the really high...
We can't technically provide medical advice, BUT, get it checked out if it keeps happening. I pulled something in my hip doing a backbend 3 years ago. It still hasn't healed. No doctor can tell me what's wrong with it because it's not worth it time-wise for my family for me to go get an MRI...
I like Native. What scent are you using? That could be the issue. Are you sure she is putting on enough? She may need to reapply right before practice. I wear Native but reapply before doing anything where I'm going to be sweating a ton.
I always had purple. It was my favorite color. I also had a pair of black wristbands as backups and for competitions. Same brand, thickness, everything. Just different color.
Can you prewrap and tape your wrists before practice so that all you have to do when it comes to bars is put on the wristbands and grips?
Otherwise I would make sure you are taking good care of the skin on your wrists and filing down any calluses. Additionally, could you tape the wristbands in...
Tape grips can help before they get grips, but I would talk to her coaches and see if they think that's a good idea. Otherwise I would say Vaseline/Aquaphor or Rip Fix or anything else you can find for fixing rips that works well for her - might take some experimentation, in fingerless gloves or...