- Jan 9, 2008
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Once again daughter has come home from practice and says after meet season she is done with the sport. After a teary ride home after practice she told me she just wants to finish out the season. She is having a lot of frustration with the level6 floor routine. She says her heels have been really hurting her . I took her to the ortho doctor in september and he said it was severs she could still tumble and she wears a heel cup. After her last meet I emailed her head coach because she did so poorly in her floor routine and I had concerns about her competing it and was she were she is supposed to be or should she be a a different level. She assured me to be patient and that she is just lacking confidence.
I let things go for a while since she seemed to be happy at the gym and did not seem to care.
Now we have a meet coming up this weekend 4 hours away so I asked daughter does she still want to go she says yes then after I told her it is alright if she wants to stop does she just want to stop now and not finish the season that it is okay than she said no she wants to finish out the year (she said she will not leave in midseason she feels quitting in the middle is not right and does not want to leave her friend who is the only other level 6 alone.
After asking her several times about why she does not want to continue she says that the coaches never tell her she is doing anything good which was the opposite of last year but she was performing much better. I think is having a really hard time tumbling with her heels. I am not sure what exactly her coach did or yelled to her about tonight because she tells me she will not rat out the coach. This coach is one of her favorite coaches.
It has been a month since her last meet when I emailed the head coach and none of the coaches have once mentioned anything that has been happening. The head coach who normally just over see thing and occasionally coaches my daughter emailed me an response to have patience and has not mentioned it since nor have the other coaches. I am alittle frustrated about the lack of communication. In her orginally email she felt that daughter will make it to states and be able to move up which does not even matter at this point.
I asked my daughter several times does she want to do the meet this weekend that it is alright if she does not, she stated she wants to go but does not want to do floor. I am not sure if they will even let her compete floor but if she scratches she will not qualify for states(she does not care). I honesstly would rather her go do the other events have fun and not worry about it ecspecailly if this is her last meet or last year. Do I approach the head coach and discuss this with her or do I just wait until after the meet. Daughter also trains with a girl doing prep novice and level 5. I actually think the prep would be a good fit for her at this time because it seems less stressful and she would have her own routines. I was hoping the headcoach would suggest this or put her back to level5. I do not know it I should ask her this but is difficult to approach her, ecspecailly about requesting anything.
I have been through this before with my daughter and she always chose to go back to gymnastics but I am really starting to think she is done. I just do not understand why she is so insistent on finishing the season and if she chooses continue this year I would just like to let her have a good last year at gymnastics.
I let things go for a while since she seemed to be happy at the gym and did not seem to care.
Now we have a meet coming up this weekend 4 hours away so I asked daughter does she still want to go she says yes then after I told her it is alright if she wants to stop does she just want to stop now and not finish the season that it is okay than she said no she wants to finish out the year (she said she will not leave in midseason she feels quitting in the middle is not right and does not want to leave her friend who is the only other level 6 alone.
After asking her several times about why she does not want to continue she says that the coaches never tell her she is doing anything good which was the opposite of last year but she was performing much better. I think is having a really hard time tumbling with her heels. I am not sure what exactly her coach did or yelled to her about tonight because she tells me she will not rat out the coach. This coach is one of her favorite coaches.
It has been a month since her last meet when I emailed the head coach and none of the coaches have once mentioned anything that has been happening. The head coach who normally just over see thing and occasionally coaches my daughter emailed me an response to have patience and has not mentioned it since nor have the other coaches. I am alittle frustrated about the lack of communication. In her orginally email she felt that daughter will make it to states and be able to move up which does not even matter at this point.
I asked my daughter several times does she want to do the meet this weekend that it is alright if she does not, she stated she wants to go but does not want to do floor. I am not sure if they will even let her compete floor but if she scratches she will not qualify for states(she does not care). I honesstly would rather her go do the other events have fun and not worry about it ecspecailly if this is her last meet or last year. Do I approach the head coach and discuss this with her or do I just wait until after the meet. Daughter also trains with a girl doing prep novice and level 5. I actually think the prep would be a good fit for her at this time because it seems less stressful and she would have her own routines. I was hoping the headcoach would suggest this or put her back to level5. I do not know it I should ask her this but is difficult to approach her, ecspecailly about requesting anything.
I have been through this before with my daughter and she always chose to go back to gymnastics but I am really starting to think she is done. I just do not understand why she is so insistent on finishing the season and if she chooses continue this year I would just like to let her have a good last year at gymnastics.