Thanks for all the replies. Just so everyone understands me....I'm not that mom that is at home telling her to practice. She loves gymnastics and we only do gymnastics when she asks. However, at this point, she is getting so much "grief" from her coach because she doesn't have her BHS yet, even though she's really not much behind the other two girls in her group on this skill (ahead of them on most all other skills), so it has become almost an obsession for her. I have been taught how to spot, I have mats at home and I only let her do it if she's doing it right. If she's having a bad day, I just gently tell her we'll try it another day. I'm not going to add to her frustration, but if I can help her out of this frustrating period, I want to do it. As for her gym...they initially taught the BHS without a backswing, but as they have progressed, they are working in the backswing. I just wasn't sure if they work in more and more of a backswing or if it's just a comfort level for the kids as far as how much of a backswing. So, unfortunately, at this time, we're having some issues with one of her coaches and I'm just trying to help my dd through this so that she can either get back to loving gymnastics each gym day (not just on the gym days when this coach isn't working) or decide she's ready to try other things.