I too don't feel bad for one minute and like most of you this wasn't my choice. She drives this, not me and she would be miserable if I tried to control it. I agree with dunno entirely. If they are dong it because the want it then a lot of this becomes a non issue. I lived at the barn when I was a kid, every day after school, every weekend. I loved it. It was the only pace I wanted to be. Sure I got injured a few times but I wouldn't trade that time, those friends or the lessons I learned there for anything.
The lessons gymnastics has taught my daughter outweighs the costs and risks in my mind. it has changed her in the most amazing ways. I also feel very secure in the fact the her club and coaches are doing everything they can to prevent injuries, especially overuse. I think gymnastics is somewhat unique in this way. There are not a lot of girls running around our gym in braces and tape and that makes me feel better. And honestly most of the minor injuries that happen to our gymnasts are from them tripping over something. We seem to have a run on broken toes right now, most from bonking them on equipment or not seeing that wall right there
I also think that in good gymnastics programs there is a strong emphasis on conditioning and form. Gymnastics is a full body sport that used all the different kinds of motion. Yes, there are still parts of the body that gat neglected a bit, but nothing like a baseball pitcher or runner where the emphasis and movements are almost entirely one dimensional and conditioning the rest of the body isn't a priority.
Rah rah gymnastics!!! Hee hee.
I too laughed out loud at the $2500 number. Per year? For two kids? Oh if only.
I completely agree about education in this country. I simply do not understand the lack of priority of good education for all and don't get how people don't see that education is the answer to most of what ails us. Sigh, don't get me started. When my dd qualified for a highly capable program I jumped at the chance for her to learn that school is supposed to be challenging and be in an environment where her intelligences would be fostered and supported. You would be amazed how many parents think I am crazy for putting her in this program. Their arguments are almost entirely social and many just don't see how I would want school not to be easy for her. What?
Regarding adult athletics, just tell your son to move to the northwest
. Almost everyone I know does some sort of organized sports activity. There are huge and active adult leagues for all levels in soccer, baseball, softball, rugby, lacrosse, hockey, you name it. There is also a fun run like every other weekend, running clubs, master swim teams, orchestras, choirs, robot clubs, hike with your dog clubs and pretty much anything else you can think of. I guess I assumed it was like this in most places but we are a little activity nuts around these parts and will pretty much do anything active even in the pouring down rain. LOL.