What bothers me is the attitude. 'Virtual faux-pas' -- once again by having a differing opinion. If you choose to have spoilers all over your forum, that's your choice. I'm with that, I get it. Am I stuck in the past - perhaps. I don't like social media, I don't like spoilers, and I continue to feel everyone who immediately spoils sporting events has no respect for others. But the issue is really the attitude. That when I say, hey I think maybe it's respectful to have spoiler tags, I'm once again marginalized and talked to like I'm an ogre just for having a differing opinion.
And I don't agree with the scenario that you think your forum will lose relevance by protecting people from spoilers. I'd say it's the exact opposite. Twitter and all that other crap will have the spoilers. Everyone knows it. So, people who might want to avoid them, would have a place they could safely chat without worrying about being spoiled. Doesn't that make any sense at least? People who DO want spoilers could still go to the spoiler section. I've seen that on other forums.
TBH I don't care that much. I'll tell you what bothers me in terms of spoilers. I used to subscribe to Icenetwork when it existed. All I wanted was to be able to watch the events without having everything spoiled. Probably not even half the time was I able to manage that, and I did this by squinting my eyes really hard, having my hand blocking most of the monitor, and trying to somehow navigate to the short program and then free skate links for a given event, somehow blocking out my vision from all the spoiler-laden links of individual's performances. It is absolutely RIDICULOUS that I had to do that for a subscription service that I was paying for. That they gave me NO option to simply have a login path I could take which would be spoiler-free. A simple, html text page linking to the short programs and free skates when they became available. Maybe that constant aggravating experience has made me even more sensitive to the subject.
NBC and Peacock are doing the same thing also. I'm not going to be up at 6AM to watch these live from Japan. So I just don't know how that makes sense. I shouldn't have to wreck my sleep schedule to avoid spoilers.