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msl529
New circumstances, same old dilemma...
DD has had scoliosis for over 3 years. So far, she has gotten by w/ only needing to wear a back brace after gym/school & overnight (12 hrs or so on average).
We went to her new Orthopedist/Scoli specialist yesterday (we had to get her established w/ a new practice, since we have moved).
We were lucky to find a really good children's hospital that is also a teaching facility/research center nearby. She will be completely covered for her care and back braces financially, as this place is also a foundation/charity org. This really helps, those back braces cost about 3 grand each, and we have not had them covered in the past.
Apparently, this center conducted a big research study which showed that back- brace treatment for moderate scoli curves like hers, are not really effective unless they are worn for at least 16 hours a day. They want her in it for 16-18 hours a day. This is all of course for a good reason, which is that we are trying to avoid her needing surgery in the future.
Upon hearing the news, she was in tears, as this means she needs to get at least 8 hours of brace-time in during the day. So, it's either wear it to school and still do gym, or quit gym (or any other afternoon activities/sports) and wear it after school/all night.
DD has had big fears about having to wear this thing at school. She knows LOTS of kids have had to do the same thing, and they have all coped, and done FINE. The brace does not really show that much, but she will have to modify what she wears in order to accomodate the brace.
I guess she is a typical, vain teen, b/c she simply does NOT want to change her style or modify her clothing tastes at school, in order to accomdate her brace. It is a big deal to her to be able to express herself w/ her sense of style & dress. It's not really about whether or not she'll be ridiculed-the kids at her school are nice and she knows it wouldn't matter. But this is a kid who (unfortunately) does put a lot of thought and effort into looking nice. 13 years old, you know the drill.
So, she is thinking about quitting gym, so that she can get brace-time in during the afternoon hours. I think she is also at that place where many teen gymnasts get to, when they realize that gym takes up a lot of their free time. She has a new gym schedule here, which now includes Fridays off (she was monday thru Friday in FL) and she has expressed to me how nice it feels to come home and just relax and feel 'normal' on a school day.
I have rambled, sorry. Just wanted too put this out there for any advice. I am really ok if she quits, I can see that having a 'life' would be nice for her, and our schedule is so dominated by this sport that I am frankly a bit burned out w/ it myself. I have toyed w/ the idea of home-schooling her so she can get brace-time in and still do gym, but honestly, I would not do her jsutice. The schools here are doing a much better job than I ever could w/ her education.
She is going to think about it and continue gym this week, so we will keep you posted.
Thanks
DD has had scoliosis for over 3 years. So far, she has gotten by w/ only needing to wear a back brace after gym/school & overnight (12 hrs or so on average).
We went to her new Orthopedist/Scoli specialist yesterday (we had to get her established w/ a new practice, since we have moved).
We were lucky to find a really good children's hospital that is also a teaching facility/research center nearby. She will be completely covered for her care and back braces financially, as this place is also a foundation/charity org. This really helps, those back braces cost about 3 grand each, and we have not had them covered in the past.
Apparently, this center conducted a big research study which showed that back- brace treatment for moderate scoli curves like hers, are not really effective unless they are worn for at least 16 hours a day. They want her in it for 16-18 hours a day. This is all of course for a good reason, which is that we are trying to avoid her needing surgery in the future.
Upon hearing the news, she was in tears, as this means she needs to get at least 8 hours of brace-time in during the day. So, it's either wear it to school and still do gym, or quit gym (or any other afternoon activities/sports) and wear it after school/all night.
DD has had big fears about having to wear this thing at school. She knows LOTS of kids have had to do the same thing, and they have all coped, and done FINE. The brace does not really show that much, but she will have to modify what she wears in order to accomodate the brace.
I guess she is a typical, vain teen, b/c she simply does NOT want to change her style or modify her clothing tastes at school, in order to accomdate her brace. It is a big deal to her to be able to express herself w/ her sense of style & dress. It's not really about whether or not she'll be ridiculed-the kids at her school are nice and she knows it wouldn't matter. But this is a kid who (unfortunately) does put a lot of thought and effort into looking nice. 13 years old, you know the drill.
So, she is thinking about quitting gym, so that she can get brace-time in during the afternoon hours. I think she is also at that place where many teen gymnasts get to, when they realize that gym takes up a lot of their free time. She has a new gym schedule here, which now includes Fridays off (she was monday thru Friday in FL) and she has expressed to me how nice it feels to come home and just relax and feel 'normal' on a school day.
I have rambled, sorry. Just wanted too put this out there for any advice. I am really ok if she quits, I can see that having a 'life' would be nice for her, and our schedule is so dominated by this sport that I am frankly a bit burned out w/ it myself. I have toyed w/ the idea of home-schooling her so she can get brace-time in and still do gym, but honestly, I would not do her jsutice. The schools here are doing a much better job than I ever could w/ her education.
She is going to think about it and continue gym this week, so we will keep you posted.
Thanks