- Jan 4, 2010
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I was recently asked advice on a situation as was curious if this was a situation anyone else has run into before.
I friend of mine's DD left a gym under not so amicable circumstances. At the time the gym said they had lost the floor music and was unable to return it. While her DD was on a social network another gymnast mentioned that she had her music for her routine now.
This past weekend at a local meet the coaches.owners from the old gym were rather cold to the young girl and in turn now her mother wants to take action and get the music back and wanted advice on the best way to proceed.
My advice was to contact the other gymnasts parents to make them aware of the situation as I imagine they do not realize they may have purchased hand me down music. Also in the end you may hurt an innocent party by pulling music away from a routine that is developed and they may not know where the music actually came from.
On the other hand a gym or coach has no right to be selling music that was indeed purchased by someone else.
It seems it really is a no win situation as no matter what someone is hurt and I wonder is there anything to be gained.
Any thoughts???
Any insight would be appreciated as we are from a small area and my DD is related and I don;t want her caught in the backlash.
I friend of mine's DD left a gym under not so amicable circumstances. At the time the gym said they had lost the floor music and was unable to return it. While her DD was on a social network another gymnast mentioned that she had her music for her routine now.
This past weekend at a local meet the coaches.owners from the old gym were rather cold to the young girl and in turn now her mother wants to take action and get the music back and wanted advice on the best way to proceed.
My advice was to contact the other gymnasts parents to make them aware of the situation as I imagine they do not realize they may have purchased hand me down music. Also in the end you may hurt an innocent party by pulling music away from a routine that is developed and they may not know where the music actually came from.
On the other hand a gym or coach has no right to be selling music that was indeed purchased by someone else.
It seems it really is a no win situation as no matter what someone is hurt and I wonder is there anything to be gained.
Any thoughts???
Any insight would be appreciated as we are from a small area and my DD is related and I don;t want her caught in the backlash.