And as someone who has a daughter who still does gym at 26yo, a coach who started coaching because of their daughter (then aged 7), and now a club owner I stand by my opinion. Kids who enjoy gym will want to practice at home. Saying "you cant have a beam in case you do do flicks" when they would greatly benefit from practicing jumps and leaps isn't going to help them. If they really don't want to practice and get better then that suggests either bad coaching or lack of desire.
Honestly, I would see your comments as a red flag in a gym owner. Outside of elite sport, what on earth is ‘hungry enough’? Hungry enough for what?
There are plenty of kids who love gym but don’t live for gym. While they are at gym they give 100%. They probably stretch and condition at home too. If they have coaches they can trust, then they put in the effort and trust the process. When they’re not at gym, they have music lessons, and scouts, and playdates and so on. They have no need and no desire to do dodgy squat-ons on inferior equipment when they can do it on real equipment, under expert guidance, at the gym.
OP we have all the home equipment. Decent mats, a reasonably good home bar, a floor beam, an airmat and even a floor bar.
The bar was a hand me down from a friend who couldn’t be bothered selling it when her gymnast grew out of it. It has never really been used as a bar, except for chin-ups during shutdown, but she likes to perch on it to read. For a reading perch it takes up a (sigh) ridiculous amount of space. The airmat was great during shutdown for minimising load during zoom activities like leaps and squat jumps etc, and doing back extension rolls. But we don’t set it up anymore because it’s a bit unweildy and who really has time for it and she was never really comfortable tumbling on it because the gym’s disapproval of home tumbling is strong.
The beam…well that was actually useful. In the earlier levels it was used to get confidence with the handstand, turns etc. The coaching she was getting at that point wasn’t great, so home practice was good for her confidence. Once she had a supportive, helpful coach it wasn‘t as useful until shutdown. And now that she is doing flight stuff on beam it doesn’t really get used anymore. She has outgrown it.
The floor bar was given to her by the gym for some reason (she probably knows, I don’t.). She has never used it at home.