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Yeah...I agree it's pretty likely her current coaches will find out.
Geez, it's even possible they knew about it before you did. Some of us just have the intuitive sense, and aren't too surprised when the imagined "switch" becomes reality.
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Get the HC of the other team to answer your questions via email......
Yeah, and use a new, separate e-mail account.
I am assuming by reading previous posts that your child's gym, by hook or by crook will find out.
I am curious why this would matter.......
Let's say you find the "right gym", but they don't have room for your dd, at leas not until some later date way down the road. What happens if, as has happened before, the present gym finds things out and simply removes your dd from their team program because they need a spot for another kid, and since your's ain't gonna be around much longer anyway.......Hey, why go the extra mile for somebody who's........
I see what you are saying, but the rebel in me just thinks that no matter what, I would pick the best fit for my girl, politics, gossip and opinions be damned!........
Now that's a refreshing attitude, because you gotta do your thing, just make sure you do it well enough to make it work for your child.
I kinda goofed up and wrote my comments inside the quotes before realizing it'd make me look like an impostor, or an idiot.
My advice is to find a person close to you that's outside the gymnastics community, and task them with the search up to the point of knowing which gym/gyms will be a good fit.....and that there's room on the team for a kid from a nearby gym, as well as the criteria for making the team. With the search narrowed down to just one or two gyms, you just may do the impossible, and get your kid accepted to the right gym before gym #1 gets in the loop.
It's a small community. We coaches all know each other, and depending on the relationship, tolerate....or befriend our professional counter parts. Asking us to "keep it confidential" requires we with hold information from a close friend, or tick of somebody who's a real pain in the sitter.....so don't ask, as it's your problem to solve.
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