UnoMas
Proud Parent
- Aug 16, 2008
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First, on staying out of drama:
This one is hard for me because I do love watching ALL the girls practice and progress, and with 3 in the gym on different schedules it is really hard for me to not be there. Plus tiny DD is still a young 5 and I don't like leaving her there. We switched gyms over the summer and I have had a lot more luck staying out of the drama at the new gym but my philosophy about gym has also changed a lot in the past year so I think that is part of the reason why. As gymgal said I am also trying to stay with POSITIVE comments and thoughts instead of dwelling on, or talking about, the negatives. I think if the words that come out of your mouth are only positive, the drama queens will stay away when they figure out they can't get the reaction they are looking for.
As far as the gym's environment...it makes me sad to read. My girls were in a negative environment for several years and looking back on it, I am just so incredibly glad to not be there any more. I know that things were said and done to my children that I should have never let happen or stood for...but at the time I just thought it was normal and that we had no other option. I am so glad to go in to the gym now and smile, and see the girls HAPPY to be at gym. It is such a great feeling. I don't ever give advice on gym-switching because there are so many factors involved, but it is my hope that as many gymmies as possible can stay involved and happy in this great sport and that negative coaching or environment do not cause them to hate and/or quit gym. And that is all I will say about that!
This one is hard for me because I do love watching ALL the girls practice and progress, and with 3 in the gym on different schedules it is really hard for me to not be there. Plus tiny DD is still a young 5 and I don't like leaving her there. We switched gyms over the summer and I have had a lot more luck staying out of the drama at the new gym but my philosophy about gym has also changed a lot in the past year so I think that is part of the reason why. As gymgal said I am also trying to stay with POSITIVE comments and thoughts instead of dwelling on, or talking about, the negatives. I think if the words that come out of your mouth are only positive, the drama queens will stay away when they figure out they can't get the reaction they are looking for.
As far as the gym's environment...it makes me sad to read. My girls were in a negative environment for several years and looking back on it, I am just so incredibly glad to not be there any more. I know that things were said and done to my children that I should have never let happen or stood for...but at the time I just thought it was normal and that we had no other option. I am so glad to go in to the gym now and smile, and see the girls HAPPY to be at gym. It is such a great feeling. I don't ever give advice on gym-switching because there are so many factors involved, but it is my hope that as many gymmies as possible can stay involved and happy in this great sport and that negative coaching or environment do not cause them to hate and/or quit gym. And that is all I will say about that!