Has anyone out there experienced inequality in their gym? The situation:
DD 9 and DD 11 competed new level 4 this year. DD 9 did quite well; DD 11 struggled with bars (huge growth spurt and the loss of her 'little girl' body are the most likely culprits). As level 4s, their gym schedule is 3 hours/day x 4 days/wk (12 hours/wk). As I said, DD 9 did well with this schedule (she made it to South State, but just missed qualifying for State--she needed top 9 and came in 11th); she was routinely scoring high 35s/low 36s AA with consistent 9s on every event besides bars (she usually was high 8s/low 9s, but not consistent).
However, there are a group of level 4s (3 of them, actually) who, for ridiculous reasons (yes, that's my opinion) were permitted to train as 5s;s that is, they were 4s, doing 4 skills, competing 4 routines, but were given 18.5 hours a week in the gym. And of course, they were amazing. I think this is grossly unfair to both my girls (and their other 12 hour/wk teammates)--DD9 would also have been amazing with an entire year of an extra 6.5 hours/month and 4 hours/month in the summer months).
Has anyone else experienced a situation similar to this and, if so, how did you handle it? I have spoken with the head coach about it and she just shrugs her shoulders like she just doesn't want to deal with it. She is also from China and may have trouble understanding why a parent would be upset about something she sees as trivial (she tells my DD9 just has to be more consistent in her meets and she would have qualified for State--seems like a complete cop-out to get out of having to explain the inequality, but again, my opinion).
(By the way, the reason the other 3 get to work out as 5s is because their parents said they couldn't get them to the gym on the days the other 4s train, but the only day they don't share is Tuesdays. It seems to me the more appropriate thing to do would be to trade days--a Monday for the Tuesday, for example, but keep the same number of hours. Am I making too much out of this?)
DD 9 and DD 11 competed new level 4 this year. DD 9 did quite well; DD 11 struggled with bars (huge growth spurt and the loss of her 'little girl' body are the most likely culprits). As level 4s, their gym schedule is 3 hours/day x 4 days/wk (12 hours/wk). As I said, DD 9 did well with this schedule (she made it to South State, but just missed qualifying for State--she needed top 9 and came in 11th); she was routinely scoring high 35s/low 36s AA with consistent 9s on every event besides bars (she usually was high 8s/low 9s, but not consistent).
However, there are a group of level 4s (3 of them, actually) who, for ridiculous reasons (yes, that's my opinion) were permitted to train as 5s;s that is, they were 4s, doing 4 skills, competing 4 routines, but were given 18.5 hours a week in the gym. And of course, they were amazing. I think this is grossly unfair to both my girls (and their other 12 hour/wk teammates)--DD9 would also have been amazing with an entire year of an extra 6.5 hours/month and 4 hours/month in the summer months).
Has anyone else experienced a situation similar to this and, if so, how did you handle it? I have spoken with the head coach about it and she just shrugs her shoulders like she just doesn't want to deal with it. She is also from China and may have trouble understanding why a parent would be upset about something she sees as trivial (she tells my DD9 just has to be more consistent in her meets and she would have qualified for State--seems like a complete cop-out to get out of having to explain the inequality, but again, my opinion).
(By the way, the reason the other 3 get to work out as 5s is because their parents said they couldn't get them to the gym on the days the other 4s train, but the only day they don't share is Tuesdays. It seems to me the more appropriate thing to do would be to trade days--a Monday for the Tuesday, for example, but keep the same number of hours. Am I making too much out of this?)