I understand that you feel that if your daughter is already entered and gets injured you are "throwing money away" but if you are past the refund deadline, the hosting gym has already laid out money for the costs that are fixed, no matter how many gymnasts come..the awards, judges, food for judges, venue cost, goodie bags. I know people feel a "doctor's note" should trump all but that doesn't change the bottom line for the host gym...I know it's a feel-good story when they give back the money when they don't have to but I wouldn't hold it against the gym who didn't refund the money after the scratch date if it is a well run meet....injuries are a risk in this sport and so is "throwing away money" unfortunately...