Sasha
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- May 15, 2013
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Personally I will usually try to be more detailed and give the opportunity to stay in the level and train without competing until ready.
This makes me wish we were in your gym - better philosophical fit I think
Yeah, I totally get that parents can overestimate their kiddos' wonderfulness. I've educated myself so much in this sport since we began to attempt to mitigate that - lol. Early on, I recognized her form was NOT natural. TOO tight. Like a strong, long-legged robot with no fluidity (sorry darling daughter! lol). Beam was also quite choppy and ugly. I seriously wondered if this was even the sport for her. But then she caught up so quickly as the months passed and her hours increased, and I'm confident to say now that dance and form are no longer a challenge. Whew.
And honestly, I'm not questioning the level placement itself (competing L3 is fine), so much as the effect of the level placement in this case, i.e., being in a practice group with girls mostly quite far behind skill-wise, and so not being able to work on the skills she had been attaining nicely before that decision. I had imagined she would do much more than run routines for 6 months, and I have so far been disappointed. So I'm more questioning this overall strategy for her.
Hopefully you are right, and nothing will actually be lost. I'm more concerned about long-term effects of this model and her potential, rather than the current L3 vs L4 short term question. I really want to hold out hope, as I don't want to switch gyms. So I'm gathering insights from all you wonderful folks now, and will keep gauging the situation as a little more time passes.