The popsicle thing makes me sad.....I can see letting the team that "won" skip conditioning or something like that but for goodness sakes, it's a friggin popsicle, why in the world can't everyone just have one? I'm sure your dd took it well, she is older and more mature but I could see the younger kids getting really upset by that.
It reminds me of a time at DD's previous gym (just made a gym switch a month or so ago) when DD got her kip, and she got congratulated, etc for it which was nice. A couple of weeks later the "favorite" of the group got her kip, and the coaches took video of it, sent it to her parents and posted it on FB, and then bought slushies for the whole team to celebrate favorite getting her kip. They didn't do anything like that for DD and never did for any other girl in the group that got her kip after either. They may not have meant to hurt DD's feelings, and dd never let on that she was upset, she congratulated the other girl, etc, but yes...her feelings were pretty hurt.