happychaos
Proud Parent
- Jul 29, 2011
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My gymmie is my oldest child, so I don't have much experience dealing with the "mean girls" out there. My DD is the youngest in her training group, but not by much. The other girls are 1-3 years older. Recently, almost every practice she comes home and complains that some of the girls are "mean" to her. The meanness includes things like ignoring, teasing (about hair style, or whatever else), or being pushed into the pit. Nothing serious or dangerous, but annoying and hurtful to my DD.
DD is a super sweet girl, and we have taught her to always be kind and nice to everyone, even if you don't like them. My DD goes to a very small private school, with only a handful of girls in her class, and they are all friendly, kind girls. DD has never really dealt with this before, but I realize this type of behavior is probably common at larger schools.
So what should I do? I have told her to ignore it and walk away, and had a talk with her about how there are always going to be mean people, so it's best to learn how to deal with them. I did tell her that if she is pushed, even into the pit, she needs to tell her coach. But, I would love other ideas, or examples from those of you who have dealt with this in the past. I do not feel that the meanness has crossed a line that I need to get the coach involved, but I want to empower my DD to handle this herself.
DD is a super sweet girl, and we have taught her to always be kind and nice to everyone, even if you don't like them. My DD goes to a very small private school, with only a handful of girls in her class, and they are all friendly, kind girls. DD has never really dealt with this before, but I realize this type of behavior is probably common at larger schools.
So what should I do? I have told her to ignore it and walk away, and had a talk with her about how there are always going to be mean people, so it's best to learn how to deal with them. I did tell her that if she is pushed, even into the pit, she needs to tell her coach. But, I would love other ideas, or examples from those of you who have dealt with this in the past. I do not feel that the meanness has crossed a line that I need to get the coach involved, but I want to empower my DD to handle this herself.