- Jan 18, 2009
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I have a group of girls struggling with motivation and I'm hoping to find some wisdom here!
They are Xcel Silvers- ages range from 8-11. All but one competed Bronze last year (the other is a first year competitor) and they did exceptionally well. I had trained the girls to be ready for Silver last season before HC decided all would compete Bronze, so they went into the season with a bit of an advantage, got huge scores, won lots of medals. So I think maybe they are feeling a bit over confident. I've talked to them about requirements being harder, judging being harder, and competition being a bit stiffer this year and given lots of talks about listening to their coaches and putting in their best effort every time. But at the moment, it's like there is just no fire lit for them.
They have their skills and routines, there are no glaring problem areas, it's just nagging little things- not finishing skills, rushing through routines, performing their floor routines like they are asleep, sloppy form, not fighting to stay on the beam or stick a landing, girls who had splits all the way down no longer do, sloppy conditioning, etc. When I glue my eyes to them individually and nag they can do it, but when I go to work with the next kid or the next practice day, it's back to the same old thing.
I've tried practice "scorecards" where they get a score on each event corresponding to their effort, most hover in the "okay" range every day and are totally okay with that. We've tried games, partner work, pep talks, etc. We've gone back to doing more basics and less new stuff until they can show me they can do the "easy" stuff well, but even that just causes them to get an attitude rather than realize they can get back to new skills with a little effort.
We also had a critique meet with judges who told the girls that most of their deductions were small details that added up. But they also still mostly scored in the 9s, so I think the comments fell on deaf ears.
Last season I only had one group of girls to myself, so they got tons of attention. This season I am coaching 2 groups simultaneously. I have an assistant each day (rotates between 2 different coaches), both are fine, but they aren't super committed. So I think that has caused some resentment that my time and energy are being split and that at times they have to "only" do what the "little girls" are doing. I've also had reports from both assistants of girls giving them attitude.
They are a great group of kids, so I'm really struggling with how to "fix" it because I really didn't expect this from them at all. Any ideas for some new ways to motivate them (other then them just getting to a meet and having their eyes opened, which is currently the direction we're headed) would be greatly appreciated!
They are Xcel Silvers- ages range from 8-11. All but one competed Bronze last year (the other is a first year competitor) and they did exceptionally well. I had trained the girls to be ready for Silver last season before HC decided all would compete Bronze, so they went into the season with a bit of an advantage, got huge scores, won lots of medals. So I think maybe they are feeling a bit over confident. I've talked to them about requirements being harder, judging being harder, and competition being a bit stiffer this year and given lots of talks about listening to their coaches and putting in their best effort every time. But at the moment, it's like there is just no fire lit for them.
They have their skills and routines, there are no glaring problem areas, it's just nagging little things- not finishing skills, rushing through routines, performing their floor routines like they are asleep, sloppy form, not fighting to stay on the beam or stick a landing, girls who had splits all the way down no longer do, sloppy conditioning, etc. When I glue my eyes to them individually and nag they can do it, but when I go to work with the next kid or the next practice day, it's back to the same old thing.
I've tried practice "scorecards" where they get a score on each event corresponding to their effort, most hover in the "okay" range every day and are totally okay with that. We've tried games, partner work, pep talks, etc. We've gone back to doing more basics and less new stuff until they can show me they can do the "easy" stuff well, but even that just causes them to get an attitude rather than realize they can get back to new skills with a little effort.
We also had a critique meet with judges who told the girls that most of their deductions were small details that added up. But they also still mostly scored in the 9s, so I think the comments fell on deaf ears.
Last season I only had one group of girls to myself, so they got tons of attention. This season I am coaching 2 groups simultaneously. I have an assistant each day (rotates between 2 different coaches), both are fine, but they aren't super committed. So I think that has caused some resentment that my time and energy are being split and that at times they have to "only" do what the "little girls" are doing. I've also had reports from both assistants of girls giving them attitude.
They are a great group of kids, so I'm really struggling with how to "fix" it because I really didn't expect this from them at all. Any ideas for some new ways to motivate them (other then them just getting to a meet and having their eyes opened, which is currently the direction we're headed) would be greatly appreciated!