- Aug 30, 2017
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Our daughter G just turned 10. She has been in gymnastics since she was 4 however due to far too many tragedies in our life, she paid the price and had to take a couple of breaks. She is completely obsessed and wants to only do competitive gymnastics. She has been at a gym for a few years now and she wanted to make USAG there but only made the state competitive team. They told us they only take a certain age and she is too old already for their gym, and it is just their policy and as much as they adore her, they stick to it. We were told she is level 3/4 and if she works on a couple of skills, could be L4 within a few weeks and already has L5 skills down such as a back tuck, but she is just too old and "so sorry". We know she is a little behind but the coaches said there is a chance she could get caught up so she is hopeful and so are we. So we went to another gym to be evaluated just to see because she was so eager (and relentless) to get on a USAG team. The gym we went to has a great reputation and even had a few girls just place at the US Classic and the P&G. They gave her a shot to workout with them and at the end, they said she was great and they would love to give her a chance on the USAG team and would get her caught up. They said she does have potential and is very strong. They said she is probably only L3/4 and they were excited to see the few L5 skills, but they will work with her.
My first question is for someone who just turned 10, what level are most competitive female gymnasts at?
My other question to you is "what would you do"? Stay at the gym closer to home, that is comfortable, still allows her to do what she loves and hopefully still get the chance to do college gymnastics knowing always in the back of our minds, "maybe we should have let her try"? OR do we drive much further away, to the better gym, knowing they are willing to give her a shot, (and yes, we know she may never even be close to Olympian status) but do we let her try for her dream to be on a USAG team and yes, we are willing to make the sacrifices for her?
We both work full time and so I am begging my job already to see if I can switch work hours around for her. We do not have alot of family so I have nobody to ask really for help. I am from another country and most relatives are gone. My beautiful father, brother, and identical twin all died tragically and way too young and my mother has emphysema. My husband's family is few and they are equally stocked with kids and activities and I would hate to ask for their help when I know they really cannot. I am only 40 and feel like I am 80!!!
Anyway, my point is, we are willing to make the life choice but is it worth it??
The final question is, do you think they are only taking her (at the potential new gym) for the USAG team to take our money to pad their gym??? If her current gym says "no way, yes she has potential but we have an age policy" but then one of the top gyms in our state says "yes, she has potential, we will allow her to join".......should we be fearful of this? I am not saying I don't see her potential because we do......she has a natural grace to her that is fun to watch and she is freakishly strong from a young age
But such opposing views make us nervous and we don't want to make the wrong choice for our baby girl. Any help or advice is so greatly appreciated. Love from Chicago and many thanks to anybody who stayed awake reading it


My first question is for someone who just turned 10, what level are most competitive female gymnasts at?
My other question to you is "what would you do"? Stay at the gym closer to home, that is comfortable, still allows her to do what she loves and hopefully still get the chance to do college gymnastics knowing always in the back of our minds, "maybe we should have let her try"? OR do we drive much further away, to the better gym, knowing they are willing to give her a shot, (and yes, we know she may never even be close to Olympian status) but do we let her try for her dream to be on a USAG team and yes, we are willing to make the sacrifices for her?
We both work full time and so I am begging my job already to see if I can switch work hours around for her. We do not have alot of family so I have nobody to ask really for help. I am from another country and most relatives are gone. My beautiful father, brother, and identical twin all died tragically and way too young and my mother has emphysema. My husband's family is few and they are equally stocked with kids and activities and I would hate to ask for their help when I know they really cannot. I am only 40 and feel like I am 80!!!

Anyway, my point is, we are willing to make the life choice but is it worth it??
The final question is, do you think they are only taking her (at the potential new gym) for the USAG team to take our money to pad their gym??? If her current gym says "no way, yes she has potential but we have an age policy" but then one of the top gyms in our state says "yes, she has potential, we will allow her to join".......should we be fearful of this? I am not saying I don't see her potential because we do......she has a natural grace to her that is fun to watch and she is freakishly strong from a young age



