happychaos
Proud Parent
I think some of these "parent" issues can be attributed to poor communication from the coaches. It seems that many coaches hide in the gym and have the attitude that parents are a liability and inconvenience instead of an asset and ally.
When there is an absence of information provided by coaches, it is no wonder parents look to other parents to fill in the gaps. I'm not suggesting that coaches should have to explain every little thing to parents, but some regular communication, especially when groups or levels are changed, would prevent much of the speculating and gossip.
I think coaches would garner more trust from parents if they would make regular communication a priority. Something simple like a conference once per year, and making themselves available before or after practice on a regular basis, or a quick e-mail every couple of months. It's easier for parents to mistrust coaches who are distant, removed, and non-personal. A friendly "hello" in the lobby, and a few quick words or e-mail about ones DD really goes a long way.
Most parents just want to know that the coach has their DD's best interests at heart, and be informed about issues/changes at the gym. If coaches could keep this in mind, the crazy CGM will not have as many parents willing to listen to her rant.
When there is an absence of information provided by coaches, it is no wonder parents look to other parents to fill in the gaps. I'm not suggesting that coaches should have to explain every little thing to parents, but some regular communication, especially when groups or levels are changed, would prevent much of the speculating and gossip.
I think coaches would garner more trust from parents if they would make regular communication a priority. Something simple like a conference once per year, and making themselves available before or after practice on a regular basis, or a quick e-mail every couple of months. It's easier for parents to mistrust coaches who are distant, removed, and non-personal. A friendly "hello" in the lobby, and a few quick words or e-mail about ones DD really goes a long way.
Most parents just want to know that the coach has their DD's best interests at heart, and be informed about issues/changes at the gym. If coaches could keep this in mind, the crazy CGM will not have as many parents willing to listen to her rant.