My daughter is a level 5 at a gym that requires her top 3 scores to average to 35. This gym always has gymnast in the top 3 places on every event and always gets 1st place for the team award.
Her highest score so far is a 33.8. While she is obviously not a natural, she has been working really hard. After our last meet she was bawling because she didn't get a 35 so she feels she will have to repeat level 5. With two more meets to go her chances of moving up to the next level are getting slimmer and slimmer. I think she has already given up and does not see the point in trying at these next two meets.
As a parent I am not sure what to do? Should I look for a new gym that does not have such a high score requirement and will let her move up, knowing that she will not score really high in the next level or do I have her repeat and hope she gets better scores next year and gets more ribbons/metals? It is really hard to know what to do because right now I feel my daughter does not think she is good enough because she can't get over a 35. Is this a realistic expectation?
Her highest score so far is a 33.8. While she is obviously not a natural, she has been working really hard. After our last meet she was bawling because she didn't get a 35 so she feels she will have to repeat level 5. With two more meets to go her chances of moving up to the next level are getting slimmer and slimmer. I think she has already given up and does not see the point in trying at these next two meets.
As a parent I am not sure what to do? Should I look for a new gym that does not have such a high score requirement and will let her move up, knowing that she will not score really high in the next level or do I have her repeat and hope she gets better scores next year and gets more ribbons/metals? It is really hard to know what to do because right now I feel my daughter does not think she is good enough because she can't get over a 35. Is this a realistic expectation?