DD (age 18) found out some personal sensitive info about HC (first hand) - nothing to do with the gym or any gymnasts. Nothing 'bad' (although some people are very judgemental)
DD feels very uncomfortable with the knowlege she has gained and says it has changed how she views HC.
We have known HC via gym for 10 years. HC really nice, done a lot for DD, more than 'needed' to, good coach.
This info is known by several people now. So is bound to get out.
When it does there will be big reactions. Including senior coach thinking of starting another club. This coach wants DD. DD keen to go.
Feel very very conflicted as the gym has been brilliant for DD and there is no reason really to change. Senior coach is better technically and is DD's personal coach. New venture may not take off as not enough potential new gymmies to have 2 in the area. (so if we left and it fails - nowhere to go).
Dread the bad feeling which is bound to occur.
What would you do?
DD feels very uncomfortable with the knowlege she has gained and says it has changed how she views HC.
We have known HC via gym for 10 years. HC really nice, done a lot for DD, more than 'needed' to, good coach.
This info is known by several people now. So is bound to get out.
When it does there will be big reactions. Including senior coach thinking of starting another club. This coach wants DD. DD keen to go.
Feel very very conflicted as the gym has been brilliant for DD and there is no reason really to change. Senior coach is better technically and is DD's personal coach. New venture may not take off as not enough potential new gymmies to have 2 in the area. (so if we left and it fails - nowhere to go).
Dread the bad feeling which is bound to occur.
What would you do?