- Feb 16, 2022
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I know there was a question already posted like this before mine. I wanted to post this before, but I didn't know if it was that important, but thank you to the person who posted their question before mine.
My DD just started gymnastic classes as an early teen. The gym offers competitive levels 1-10 and there are no tryout dates, you just get asked if you want to join the team when they think you're ready. She's wanted to join a gymnastics team, I believe since the beginning of covid, but you know.. covid. When it got better, I just didn't have the time to let her join. But we moved, so I signed her up for a gymnastics class. We had a meeting with the HC before signing her up, he said that it would be best for her to try the pre-team first so they could evaluate her before doing competitive. They did have an option of putting her in beginners, but they said pre-team would work better because of her age and skill level. They evaluated her, and said pre-team would be best for now. The classes are once a week, because that's just how their pre-team classes work. She started a little over a month ago.
Apparently, in last weeks class, the coach raised his voice pretty loudly at her. "I know you've been practicing at home. You're ruining your skills. You're throwing your head back in your tuck."
DD said that she just nodded and tried again and he said it was better.
Then when a girl around her age tried her tuck, he said "Good, but you're throwing your head back. Try again,"
She just spoke about this now, and she says that her coach always congratulates, smiles and claps for others, but when it comes to her it's as if the sunny weather was suddenly replaced with thunder and lightning. Now, my DD is pretty sensitive. I think she let his words get in her head, because she cries when she talks about it. This is the only gym with competitive gymnastics around us, so there's not really a choice to move. DD really, really wants to have fun and do competitive, but I can't see her cry anymore. There was a similar, but minor situation like this the class before. I don't know what to do. Is this just another sensitive case and she's just comparing herself, or is something else? All the reviews for this gym and the coach are good.
Thanks for the responses
My DD just started gymnastic classes as an early teen. The gym offers competitive levels 1-10 and there are no tryout dates, you just get asked if you want to join the team when they think you're ready. She's wanted to join a gymnastics team, I believe since the beginning of covid, but you know.. covid. When it got better, I just didn't have the time to let her join. But we moved, so I signed her up for a gymnastics class. We had a meeting with the HC before signing her up, he said that it would be best for her to try the pre-team first so they could evaluate her before doing competitive. They did have an option of putting her in beginners, but they said pre-team would work better because of her age and skill level. They evaluated her, and said pre-team would be best for now. The classes are once a week, because that's just how their pre-team classes work. She started a little over a month ago.
Apparently, in last weeks class, the coach raised his voice pretty loudly at her. "I know you've been practicing at home. You're ruining your skills. You're throwing your head back in your tuck."
DD said that she just nodded and tried again and he said it was better.
Then when a girl around her age tried her tuck, he said "Good, but you're throwing your head back. Try again,"
She just spoke about this now, and she says that her coach always congratulates, smiles and claps for others, but when it comes to her it's as if the sunny weather was suddenly replaced with thunder and lightning. Now, my DD is pretty sensitive. I think she let his words get in her head, because she cries when she talks about it. This is the only gym with competitive gymnastics around us, so there's not really a choice to move. DD really, really wants to have fun and do competitive, but I can't see her cry anymore. There was a similar, but minor situation like this the class before. I don't know what to do. Is this just another sensitive case and she's just comparing herself, or is something else? All the reviews for this gym and the coach are good.
Thanks for the responses