I sometimes look at the girls in the gym and what they go through each session - the conditioning, the sweat, the frustration, the falls and bruises and scrapes, the occasional being told off for not doing something correctly and being made go again.
It occurs to me that if many girls from my dd's peers at school were to go and try a session they would walk out of that gym and go 'what the heck', never want to do anything like that again and think she is crazy.
There's something about their drive and willingness to do what it takes for that skill and that progression which makes them seem so much older than they are.
I watched my dd last night get a bit of a shouting at for messing something up. She turned round flushed of cheeks, set her jaw and went again and did it. All she was interested in when she came out was whether I had seen something else - something she had done really well on. Amazing ability to focus on the positive and be ready to go back and fix the negative without question.
This morning she is lay on the sofa watching Frozen, surrounded by her cuddly toys.