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A friend and I were just talking about this subject now that our girls already went through the recruiting process and how different it went for them. My question of the day is for those of you who have been through it or even going through it now: When did your daughter get her offer? Before her visit? during her visit? after her visit? Also, what made them choose the school they committed to?
 
Mine had a different experience. She was a strong, multi-year L10, but not one of the best. So not someone who was getting a bunch of offers on day one, but also not one who was ignored and happy with anything she could get. For gymnasts like her, they are sort of "2nd tier," which means you maybe get some attention but not commitments from the highly ranked schools, and more attention from lower ranked schools (who tend to recruit later and more slowly.) It's not the best situation, because you don't get a bunch of offers to consider simultaneously, yet when you get an offer it's hard to know whether to take it or wait for something better (e.g. the schools who are talking with you, but back burnering you likely until they hear from their top choices.) If you wait, the offer(s) you have may disappear. But as the offer is not really what you want, and your top schools are still talking with you and haven't said "no," it's hard to take it, especially early. Some schools will tell you right away if they are taking a pass, which is actually great (as hard as it may be, especially if it's the dream school.) But others will keep you hanging on, thinking maybe you have a shot, but not making the offer, even when you have to decide on the other, "lesser" offer.

My kid's experience might not have been the norm, but I feel like those most willing to share their experiences are the ones whose journeys are super straightforward and seemingly ideal -- calls and some offers from all their top choices on 6/15, home visits from said schools in the summer, back-to-back official visits in September/October, and then weigh the offers and commit.

In terms of your specific question, my daughter got most of her offers at a meeting with the coaches on the last day of her visit. She got some offers on the floor right after Nationals. She also got one or two on the phone, I think after the visit.

I hope this is helpful to some who may be in a similar position.
 
June 15th she had 7 calls (and many emails and texts). Each call offered her an official visit and 3 of the 7 offered her a scholarship. She accepted one of the offers the next day. She only took an official visit to the school whose offer she accepted. To be fair, she never hid the fact that this school was her top choice so it wasn’t a big surprise when she accepted. The most surprising thing to me was some schools who never set up a call even though they had been sending her stuff for years and hearing from one school who said she was their #1 and they had never sent her anything or come to her gym. We had no idea they were even interested until that phone call.
 
June 15th she had 7 calls (and many emails and texts). Each call offered her an official visit and 3 of the 7 offered her a scholarship. She accepted one of the offers the next day. She only took an official visit to the school whose offer she accepted. To be fair, she never hid the fact that this school was her top choice so it wasn’t a big surprise when she accepted. The most surprising thing to me was some schools who never set up a call even though they had been sending her stuff for years and hearing from one school who said she was their #1 and they had never sent her anything or come to her gym. We had no idea they were even interested until that phone call.
And she's off to such a great start at that school! I'm glad it worked out for her.
 
Mine had a different experience. She was a strong, multi-year L10, but not one of the best. So not someone who was getting a bunch of offers on day one, but also not one who was ignored and happy with anything she could get. For gymnasts like her, they are sort of "2nd tier," which means you maybe get some attention but not commitments from the highly ranked schools, and more attention from lower ranked schools (who tend to recruit later and more slowly.) It's not the best situation, because you don't get a bunch of offers to consider simultaneously, yet when you get an offer it's hard to know whether to take it or wait for something better (e.g. the schools who are talking with you, but back burnering you likely until they hear from their top choices.) If you wait, the offer(s) you have may disappear. But as the offer is not really what you want, and your top schools are still talking with you and haven't said "no," it's hard to take it, especially early. Some schools will tell you right away if they are taking a pass, which is actually great (as hard as it may be, especially if it's the dream school.) But others will keep you hanging on, thinking maybe you have a shot, but not making the offer, even when you have to decide on the other, "lesser" offer.

My kid's experience might not have been the norm, but I feel like those most willing to share their experiences are the ones whose journeys are super straightforward and seemingly ideal -- calls and some offers from all their top choices on 6/15, home visits from said schools in the summer, back-to-back official visits in September/October, and then weigh the offers and commit.

In terms of your specific question, my daughter got most of her offers at a meeting with the coaches on the last day of her visit. She got some offers on the floor right after Nationals. She also got one or two on the phone, I think after the visit.

I hope this is helpful to some who may be in a similar position.
Exactly why I asked this question. While many are cut and dry, i would say a large percent aren't. I love having this information out there to help other parents going through the process. I feel like I didn't see a lot of answers out there for the tier 2-3 gymnast.
 
At midnight on June 15th she got her first call and an offer. The other schools they scheduled a call then told her their offers. As far as the visits, she starts this coming week. What made her decided on the school, I can’t speak on that right now.
Cant wait for you to come back and fill us in! Thanks for the info!
 
June 15th she had 7 calls (and many emails and texts). Each call offered her an official visit and 3 of the 7 offered her a scholarship. She accepted one of the offers the next day. She only took an official visit to the school whose offer she accepted. To be fair, she never hid the fact that this school was her top choice so it wasn’t a big surprise when she accepted. The most surprising thing to me was some schools who never set up a call even though they had been sending her stuff for years and hearing from one school who said she was their #1 and they had never sent her anything or come to her gym. We had no idea they were even interested until that phone call.
Love that she got her first choice and is happy and thriving!
 
Pretty much same experience as Tys Dad. June 15th shre received offers from most of her initial calls. The rest came during the home visit. As far as why she chose that school. I can only speculate, but the culture of the team really seemed to resonate with her.
I think it interesting how some do home visits too! I feel like there aren't a ton who do that.
 

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