While we're all criticizing, how many of us would actually turn it down? If UF offered DD a scholarship in 8th grade, she'd be over the moon. I'd seriously question turning it down, and how such a response might be received.
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I agree with this. Heck, I have NO dog in this fight, my child is 8 and a L5 so we are not even close to considering this sort of thing. That said, if my child's "dream school" came and offered her a full ride (of course taking into account academics etc- which I would assume that since Utah is a large state school they have a wide variety of programs to choose from) I would be hard pressed to turn that down! I mean, your kid is dying to do college gym at a fabulous school and you would say "no"?! Not sure I could!
Beyond that, I still think that making comments that "we" "don't understand" why a school would choose her, or things of that nature are IMHO not necessary or appropriate. As I said earlier, DD is only an 8 year old L5 but I have learned quickly that 1) gymnastics is not fair and equal 2) coaches see things in kids that go beyond scores etc 3) it is difficult or really a waste of energy to guess the "why" of situations regarding other children and their gymnastics path. I personally am just really happy for the little girl. I don't think she needs to "toughen up" (as one previous poster so kindly stated). I am willing to be that she is tougher than most, just by the merits of making it to where she is today (heading into L10 as a "just" 13 year old girl). I understand why people think this is "too young" BUT this is the system we are in, and I applaud her gym for obviously doing what it takes to get these girls to their dream. Obviously by what someone above posted, they have a track record of success in this area.