Flossyduck
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- Feb 2, 2012
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At the risk of being told that doing a 100 v sits and walking half a mile on your hands will sort everything out... (sorry couldn't resist)
I wondered what views were on why it's such a no-no for gymnasts to cry?
I have to say that I think dd's coach gets the balance right on this and my daughter isn't a big cryer, so its not a problem for us, I'm just curious.
I'd say my dd is as tough as they come at 9. She only cries when she's properly hurt (twice total - sprained ankle and a really nasty bash to her face/chest when she missed her hands on beam flic). BUT she occasionally can be seen to be brushing away tears when she is really frustrated and trying hard but it's not working and especially if her coach yells at her (because she is also frustrated) and dd is trying as hard as she can. I'm talking maybe once a month I can see her wiping furiously at her eyes. She has no sympathy for girls who cry in conditioning or stretching.
I see other older elite girls crying when they are having a bad session or something isn't going well and they are obviously exhausted from trying. I've seen Olympians crying under those circumstances.
Every now and then the coaches will talk to them very firmly about how they mustn't cry, gymnasts don't cry and sometimes they can be pretty harsh and I've heard older elite girls told to go home if they don't stop crying.
I can see how crying every-time you fall off beam or don't like the conditioning isn't going to wash, but I'm talking shedding a few tears because you want something badly and are striving for it and can't get it to work and I don't get why that is so bad? I cry sometimes. If the tears come out and then they pick themselves up and carry on why should it matter?
Crying to me shows they are passionate and they care does it not? They aren't robots and it clearly isn't stopping them from being very good gymnasts.
I think the level of importance put on not crying is out of proportion. What does anyone else think?
I wondered what views were on why it's such a no-no for gymnasts to cry?
I have to say that I think dd's coach gets the balance right on this and my daughter isn't a big cryer, so its not a problem for us, I'm just curious.
I'd say my dd is as tough as they come at 9. She only cries when she's properly hurt (twice total - sprained ankle and a really nasty bash to her face/chest when she missed her hands on beam flic). BUT she occasionally can be seen to be brushing away tears when she is really frustrated and trying hard but it's not working and especially if her coach yells at her (because she is also frustrated) and dd is trying as hard as she can. I'm talking maybe once a month I can see her wiping furiously at her eyes. She has no sympathy for girls who cry in conditioning or stretching.
I see other older elite girls crying when they are having a bad session or something isn't going well and they are obviously exhausted from trying. I've seen Olympians crying under those circumstances.
Every now and then the coaches will talk to them very firmly about how they mustn't cry, gymnasts don't cry and sometimes they can be pretty harsh and I've heard older elite girls told to go home if they don't stop crying.
I can see how crying every-time you fall off beam or don't like the conditioning isn't going to wash, but I'm talking shedding a few tears because you want something badly and are striving for it and can't get it to work and I don't get why that is so bad? I cry sometimes. If the tears come out and then they pick themselves up and carry on why should it matter?
Crying to me shows they are passionate and they care does it not? They aren't robots and it clearly isn't stopping them from being very good gymnasts.
I think the level of importance put on not crying is out of proportion. What does anyone else think?