Thanks for all the replies and well wishes. The quick answer is that she’s not going to gym/no conditioning at home for now. (I've added a few details below
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Yes and really the key point that seems to be getting lost is, no activity for now.
It is not all or nothing, not necessarily the whole 6 weeks.
Not lost at all!
I'm putting my two cents in as a physical therapist. At this point, if the doctor is extremely concerned about the bones shifting, please listen.
I can’t thank you enough for this post. It changed my thinking (and I rewrote the response that I was about to send) based on your comments. My dd’s doctor had given me the impression that it’s okay for her to do anything at home (she can’t fall, non-aggressive) but she can’t do these things at the gym. That’s why I was so confused. You’ve explained it and it makes more sense now. I’m sure he wasn’t thinking that she would be doing v lifts and super girl holds at home (not sure if that’s what it’s really called).
He did specifically state that there’s a risk for slippage for 2 weeks. (He won’t even recast her until next week). So 2 week wait to start conditioning sounds like a great idea. Also, I plan revisit this conversation with him at next week’s appointment. (I’m sure he’ll be thrilled to chat with me in person
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When my kid was off weight bearing stuff for her wrist last spring I sat through conditioning. She really didn't grasp what she needed to back off on, to her it was just tumbling.
Her doctor wasn’t ready to discuss this part with me (too many “what if” scenarios) but broadly speaking he said first 6 weeks no gymnastics another 2 weeks for full mobility and another 4 weeks for a full recovery (I know he was just giving me rough estimates). Also, I was planning to say that my dd is cautious but you gave a great example, she’s not going to be able to decide what she should and shouldn’t do and I was going to put too much faith in her coaches.
A good gymnastics program should NOT have kids horsing around in a way that is likely to cause a conditioning athlete to get injured. Lack of attentiveness and horsing around of that nature at my kids' gym is not tolerated. I worry far more about public school gym class.
(This is for when she does return to the gym so I know what to expect.) This is exactly what I was hoping to hear, but based on the range of answers I’ve read here, not all gyms are like this. I think my dd’s is, but I’ll check in with her coach to confirm. I’ve got a list of specific questions/concerns for him based on what I’ve read here. I’m also going to tell him specifically what her doctor told/tells me.
here on CB (while we have lots of opinions and experience relative to us) are the least of it.
I don’t agree. I’ve made so many informed decisions based on comments/information I’ve received on CB. I didn’t know about the typical environment during a team practice at a gym I assumed it was a relatively control environment. I’ve gotten a great range of answers and I that’s what I was looking for to make a more informed decision. As usual I’ve been given some additional things to think about that hadn’t occurred to me.
but know that she could injure it just as likely in school at recess or playing in the house.
This was my mentality when I posted the question. It’s about relative risk. Her doctor wasn’t distinguishing /gymnastics/dance/any other sports/gym class/recess. He just lumped it all together.
You really aren't in a position to know from an online forum whether other children here have had a worse injury than your DD.
Good point, thanks. (and thanks to the other posters (and PM’s) with specifics.
sometimes it is harder on us as parents I swear....
So true. She doesn't feel nearly as bad for herself as I feel for her.
"This won’t make a difference in the long run (for her career)" (several similar comments)
This response isn’t as applicable after I read Carrie99’s posts but I it got me thinking about why my dd does gymnastics and why it’s so important for me for her to get back to the gym.
I love seeing my dd so focused and working so hard towards achieving her goal to compete in a meet some day. In the process I’ve seen her gain confidence, overcome fears and become very strong and flexible. I also want her to get back to gymnastics b/c she loves it. I think mentally, being in the gym and with her teammates is different than conditioning at home. (Which, based on what the doctor said, she is allowed do now but I'm no going to let her until she sees her doctor again and I get a clarification)
True, 6 weeks isn’t a big deal in the scheme of things but when her doctor told me she can do anything non-aggressive at home but can’t step into her gym I don’t think he’s making an effort to understand where we’re coming from.
(Hopefully I don’t get too much negative feedback for this thought)
In the back of my mind (after her health and her wellbeing) I had been wondering if her gym tends to move girls up after states (in May) and how she would take it if she got held back b/c of the timing of her recovery. Before Carrie994 explained it, the decision about no gym seemed arbitrary. Without understanding why she couldn’t do anything physical outside our home for 6 weeks and then potentially have to spend a few extra unnecessary weeks working on mobility/strength didn't make sense to me and I was trying to understand. Now I feel like I understand why she's not going to the gym for now.