I never said it doesn’t happen. All I’m saying is if it’s to such a high degree that everyone’s making it out to be then there’d be way more children dropping out of the gyms program which they would notice and then reassess their problems. For gyms that don’t either are negligent and not aware of the drop out rate. You make it out to seem like it’s worse thing ever and happening all the time.
It’s not being naive. My children are at a gym with higher hours but coaches overseeing the children’s well-being too. The endless stream of hopefuls haven’t been with the coaches which have children they have been coaching for years. If a child they have been coaching for years drops out their attention goes onto why. Not let’s just get another kid in. I guess we are just lucky that we don’t have to be apart of what you describe and in my opinion that’s another gyms and parents problem. If parents and gyms can work together to provide a great environment for the child both social gym and school. Then either the parents problem or the gyms and communication isn’t happening. But I don’t see how everyone has to stick their noses in other peoples problems. Unless it’s a massive neglect and someone reaching out for help. Which this post has never been about then we help. But the start of this post was just a winge about children they don’t even no who are young and train long hours. You don’t know each families situation and to debate about it is just weird. I mean it’s happening. It’s not a negative or a positive in some places so why don’t we just focus on our own gyms and communication with them about the problems our kid is having i
I have never seen an overall study. One hundred percent responsibility of individual parent and coach. If they have to learn the hard way then they do. Theirs no guide book to parenting.
its striking a nerve because I don’t like parents who put their nose in other peoples business. Focus on your own child and what kind of training you want for your own kid. Don’t worry about other peoples children who haven’t asked for advice. I think a lot of parents compare other children in gymnastics and that annoys me because it’s none of your business. Unless it affects you and your child in any way why don’t we just focus on what we want for our own child instead of trying to tell other families what they are doing wrong or right with their kids
I have not seen a post about a parent asking for advice on this thread about it. Only just statements about how horrible it is. Or parents of children who do long hours not complaining about it. I mean there’s no one on here or started asking for advice. That’s what I’m irked about. If someone wanted advice fair call. But one person has literally just put her nose into a conversation about other families for no reason purely just to state what she thinks about something that’s not happening to her child. Like look after your own family.[/QUOTE]
Then reply to those parents who are starting threads to ask opinions. Don’t start your own thread for your own reason about things your just stating about things that aren’t happening to your child. Unless your asking for advice. Then response to those asking for advice instead of creating from nothing your own pointless thread
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didn’t say it’s not allowed I just don’t see why you don’t respond to the other peoples thread who are genuinely asking for opinions.[/QUOTE]
It’s true I just can’t stand parents who stick their noses in peoples business. It’s so rude and is why society is becoming so negative. In the past people would learn from their mistakes and go through life without the whole world telling them what to do and not to do.
Your the type of person that would hear sirens going off near their place and then have to find out why. And have some sort of opinion you feel the need to share to the world about.
