raenndrops
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Actually, both YG and OG can show and tell about each medal and a lot of their ribbons. YG's favorite ribbon is 1st place on Bars in the meet where she was 10 and beat a 16 year old that should have been in XP or L6 (was competing XG after a solid year at L5). Her 2nd favorite ribbon is a 9th place from old L4 Floor - because she landed her BHS unspotted for the first time.You get what you pay for. So if paying $100 for a competition so you your child gets a $10 momento is important then that's fine.
I'd rather pay $20 for the competition and my kid gets nothing. If she places top 3 (or6) she gets a medal or a ribbon then that's great. And if I'd like to use that spare $80 to get her a momento from that competition/trip then that's up to me.
I see US kids getting a number of medals over a lot of competitions and don't see how they mean anything to the kids. They take them home and I imagine hang them up/throw them in a box. If you get (if you are really doing great) a couple of medals a year you treasure them .
The kids I've known over the years that have been high achievers (esp in lower levels) and get a number of medals a year and place well, tend to throw embarrassing hissy fits when they don't place or worse get a 3rd or something when they are older. (say 9-12)
For little kids (5-8yrs) the achievement ribbons are a great idea. They get something to show for their effort, before they can really understand the intrinsic rewards, but no one has do the stand in last place thing.
Most kids (the good - average etc ones) here have a very small collection of 'rewards' and they can show you and tell you about each medal. I'm sure most US kids can't do that, they are just forgotten after each meet. The ones that have had loads can't.