dynamicduo
Proud Parent
Both of my DDs are on the same team (level 4) and there are only 9 girls including them, so it's pretty small. There is another girl, same age, same ability and during the meets they all trade between 1st,2nd & 3rd place. This other girl has gotten very mean and snotty to my daughters' to the point where it is affecting practice.
The other night, for example, this girl moved the spring board on the vault before DDs turn and because it wasn't in the correct spot, my DD jammed her foot and hurt herself. She came off the floor crying and wanted to get ice then just sat out for the rest of practice (only 10min left anyway). As soon as the other girls mom got to the gym, she came off the floor crying saying that my DD did something to her. BUT, I saw the whole thing!!! This mom is always saying they are fighting with each other, but her daughter is very manipulative!!
I keep telling my girls to ignore her, walk away if she tries to start thing, but this makes the girl extremely upset and she throws tantrums that then make my girls look bad, even if they've done nothing! The coach tonight made them sit down and talk it out, but it really doesn't do anything!!
She is 10 and my girls are 9 so I can only see this issue getting worse! She is a very jealous person and if anyone is getting more/better skills than her, she throws fits! Another example, after the 1st meet, she came in 1st place. The practice after that meet, my DD got her cast handstand and the coach called her a champion. The girl yelled at the HC saying, " She is not a champion, she didn't win, I did, I'm the only champion"! Ugh I could use some advice on how to deal with this!! Thanks!
The other night, for example, this girl moved the spring board on the vault before DDs turn and because it wasn't in the correct spot, my DD jammed her foot and hurt herself. She came off the floor crying and wanted to get ice then just sat out for the rest of practice (only 10min left anyway). As soon as the other girls mom got to the gym, she came off the floor crying saying that my DD did something to her. BUT, I saw the whole thing!!! This mom is always saying they are fighting with each other, but her daughter is very manipulative!!
I keep telling my girls to ignore her, walk away if she tries to start thing, but this makes the girl extremely upset and she throws tantrums that then make my girls look bad, even if they've done nothing! The coach tonight made them sit down and talk it out, but it really doesn't do anything!!
She is 10 and my girls are 9 so I can only see this issue getting worse! She is a very jealous person and if anyone is getting more/better skills than her, she throws fits! Another example, after the 1st meet, she came in 1st place. The practice after that meet, my DD got her cast handstand and the coach called her a champion. The girl yelled at the HC saying, " She is not a champion, she didn't win, I did, I'm the only champion"! Ugh I could use some advice on how to deal with this!! Thanks!