1canadiangymmom
Proud Parent
OP - Just wanted to say, I get what you are saying, and it's probably nothing to do with you, it's probably just a bunch of cliquey bit*&^ parents. Keep being kind and supportive, and offer a nod and smile. Either someone will come around or they won't. For the first few years at my dd's gym, this is kind of how it was for me, no one was outwardly rude, but no one would include me, save a seat, go out of their way etc. Now we are one of the families that have been there the longest, and I have made some wonderful friends. Most of those original moms dd's have either retired, changed gyms or quit, and the atmosphere is very different. We now are much friendlier towards everyone, and it is a much more enjoyable place to be.