- Jun 16, 2013
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My DD (9) just moved to L5 at the beginning of the year. Her coach told me today she wants to move her to L7 (she's been uptraining a lot since she already has all her L5 skills clean) but she's not strong enough yet for bars. Her plan, from what I got from her (there is a bit of a language barrier as her coach is from China) is that she needs to compete one sanctioned meet at L5 and score out (for her coach, that's a 36 AA or 9s on 3 of the 4 events and a mid-8 on the 4th) which she is confident she'll do (at a test meet she scored 9.5 on vault, 9.6 on beam, and 9.2 on floor, but only scored an 8.25 on bars as the free hip still needs some work). So my question is this: I trust her coach that if she says she'll be ready for L7 by January then that's where she'll be. BUT...I know my DD and she doesn't do well if she feels someone is putting undue pressure on her. When her coach said she wanted her to compete L7 in January, her eyes got quite big and the whole drive home she kept telling me that her coach was crazy because bars would not be anywhere near ready for L7 by January. What, if anything, can I do to either help strength/conditioning at home AND to help her not succumb to pressure that is nonexistent (her coach said if she's not ready, she's not ready--not a big deal, she'll compete where she's at, so I know her coach is not putting any pressure on her or setting expectations that she can't meet)? Parents and coaches who have been in a similar situation, any advice would be much appreciated.